Bleeding Heart

First of all if you guys went everywhere together how did he meet this girl and sleep with her if you were there?? Second of all if he is cheating on you and treating you badly then I dont think he feels for you the way you do for him..

I hate to be the one to tell you this but if he did it once he will do it again. The only way to get over him is time.. It is going to hurt for a while but over time you heart will heal. I am sorry to hear that your perfect love did this to you. But honey if you dont move on you will never be happy again.. be strong it will get better soon..

I hope this helps you

dont_be_stupid’s got a point, no reason for you to rate his answer unhelpful.

You’re still lovestruck by your perfect image of your guy that it’s clouding your judgment. It was never a perfect relationship, he’s cheated on you, doing drugs, and has Herpes. You should not be confronting the “ho”, but you really should be confronting HIM!

I know it’s painful how someone can change all of a sudden like that, but a small lapse of judgment (allowing himself to cheat on you) and drugs can change a person. You know he’s going to cheat on you again, he even did when you forgave him the first time.

For his sake, I think that you should leave him. You have to show him that he will lose the people he loves and anything meaningful in his life if he keeps doing drugs and having affairs. If he really wants to, and if he really loves you, he will try to clean up and give you a call when he’s ready. If you’re just easily forgiving him now just like that, he will not learn his lesson, and he will think that he’s not doing anything wrong, he doesn’t feel any loss or punishment.

So if he cleans up and comes back to you, you better make sure that he means what he says and that he wont ever do it again in the future. And it’ll be your decision to forgive him or not then.