Bff trouble?

What should I do? I have been having trouble with my bff. She hasn’t been as trustworthy and she’s just changing too much! She wears this eye makeup that doesn’t look bad nor good. She was prettier without it.

Also she sometimes acts dumb in front of both genders, but mostly males. Especially our history teacher last year! Like she would act fine in class, but like before/after class she would act clueless.

It’s reallyyy hard to talk to her about this because she’s lied when I brought up smaller topics.

But her changes aggravate me soo much, like is it for attention? Or like I don’t know. She said she was just doing this to “act mature”. But I really don’t think that wearing a practically see-through dress and basically hooker shoes is “acting mature”.

But like we got in a fight and I cried because I thought I’d lost her…and I’m kinda upset cause I know she didn’t cry or anything.

Also, I hate being mad at her cause we have soo much in common and she always makes me laugh.

So any suggestionsss

Anything should help. Much lovee and thanks!

Answer #1

thanks for all of the advice :)

Answer #2

Sounds like she’s tryna “grow up” but going completely the bimbo-hooker-wannabe-bombshell way about it. Try having a sleepover, you can do loads that can reveal a persons true personality, coss when you’re in your jammies you hardly have to wear a “mask”.

So, you can talk in a relaxed atmosphere, or even try “truth or dare” if you wanna be really brutal and to the point.

About the make-up, try suggesting a makeover, and when it’s her turn, go for a “natural look” and then constantly comment on how pretty she looks (But not to the point where it gets creepy).

Hope this helps :]

Answer #3

The best thing to do is sit her down and tell her you really love her just wanna let her know how you feel , Tell her you dislike it when she acts simple around people because you know she smarter then that, Sounds like she has a little bit of a crush on her teacher witch is normal. And yea she probley does look better with no make up on but its her choice and you should accept her for it. As for the trust worthy thing dont tell her as much save your deeper thoughts save them for your mom because you know she wont tell any one :) . hope I helped you out if you have any more questions feel free to fun mail me :) . Yours truly Demika Ray

Answer #4

just keep doing small things you 2 used to enjoy. that will remind her of who she really is. or you could do “make overs” and give her some tips on eye makeup. she’s probably just adjusting to liking guys and stuff, it’s totally normal.

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