How can I help my bff realize that she has a wonderful life and is beautiful?

because she tells me she hates her life and that shes ugly constantly?This grl is like my sister and it hurts to see her so upset with her life. She dosnt believe me wen i tell her shes pretty and that people hav it worse in there lives so i duno wat to do anymore. how can i make her feel better about her life?

Answer #1

you are a GREAT friend. just stick with her. you are doing the best you can do. stay positive. You can’t change her mind about things. I’d tell her. okay so you think this about yourself. but I can say you are beautiful, smart, sweet and my best friend. No matter what the situation? You can always count on me to be there for you. Just let her know you are there and will always be there.

Answer #2

I have and had this same problem with my bestfriend , she says she hates her life and at times ive said that im shure everyone has at one point and time. You just have to tell her your there for no matter what! Tell her shes pretty and its sad she doesnt realize it! When my friend says stuff like that we joke around and be like " cmon you know your prettier than that nasty hoe “ :D You could think of something like that to cheer her up , if yall play around like that!. But , there is alot of girls who dont think they are pretty because of other girls and because guys ignore them and go to girls that will well you know. You just have to be there for her , tell her that life isnt easy at all you just have to take stuff day by day but , that you are always there for her.

Answer #3

Tell her why she is your bff and if you want her to think of it dont pause in between the things you tell her say it slowly and dramaticly voice

Answer #4

She is just going trough a phrase. You can’t change her way of thinking, or MAKE her think something else. All you can do is be there for her tell her your opinions about what you think of her and let the rest heal with time.

Answer #5

Buy her a Dildo <3 Gets me everytime :)

Answer #6

You cannot. There is a saying that goes “The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence”. People just too busy looking at other people lawns that they dont realise that they have a nice lawn themselves and other people looking at it too.

Answer #7

Do something small but states a big message. Like write it on a sticky note saying “You’re beautiful” or “I love having you in my life” and stick it on her locker or somewhere she will find it. (:

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