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boyfriend or not?

Ok, I’ve known this dude for 5 years. Weve been on and off, yes sex was invovled. He has been very confusing lately-he got jealous when I told him I had a boyfriend, and said we were going out, but I NEVER KNEW THAT! I have lost the “IN love” feeling towards him and I really don’t know what to do. I DO LOVE HIM, but I dont know what he wants the way his immaturity shines through whenever we are around. Many people SAY they think he is using me, especially for sex, but he doesnt want me to know. even his best friend told me that. What do I do? Do I stay with him, do I say just be friends and risk being friends AT ALL if he gets mad?? PLEASE HELP!!!

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Answer #1

yup I totally agree with superfresh, just talk to him and try to avoid this sort of situation in the future.

Answer #2

Ok, well there is no way you can “stay with him” if you never acknowledged a relationship with him. What you need to go ahead and do is talk to him about it, and let him know that you never agreed to a relationship while you were sober. And so what if he gets mad?.. it’s human nature, life will go on.. and P.S. word of advice…AVOID sleeping with guys who you are not in some sort of relationship with, because emotional attachments tend to form, and those tend to be the worst part of the sex aftermath…good luck.. xx. superfresh.

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