Why do I do if my bf got another girl pregnant?

If he got some chick prego then it won’t work out with him and you. That chick will beg for him to come to her life so they can both support the kid, and you’ll feel isolated because you’re not in the problem between them. In other words he’ll be busy with that chick and the baby soon now, and in the future. So I suggest that you leave him for your best. Yes, your in love with him but you have to know, he got a girl prego and what if that happends to you? Your not ready. You’re young. you can find some one else who respects you and themselves.

im sorry girl but he obivislyh dsnt love you. he’s just using those three magic words to get what he wants and then he’s done. just forget him. your young. dont think you have to settle on this guy right now.

I think you should tell him that his concerns should be focused on his soon to be child. You don’t want to complicate anything that could put you in the middle of two other people’s problem.

u said he loves you!!!!!!! but if he really loves u lot then y he went to another GIRL????????? Think twice………..lol

Umm well if he does love you a lot i dont see why he did that in the first place, its your choice. But i have to agree with the others, you deserve better. Who actually mean what they say. Listen your relationship now is complicated, what if you stuck with him and found him cuddling with this girl after you gave him your trust back, then what? Just think of it carefully

Here’s the bottom line. There are two ways he can react to this. If she is keeping the baby, he can either be in the baby’s life, or he can choose to ignore it. If he is not in his baby’s life, is that the type of guy you really want to be with? Someone who will abandon their child when it is not convenient? Because if he does it to one child, he will do it to another. If he is in the baby’s life, your relationship will not survive. He will be involved with the kid, and I’m sorry but at 14 there’s no way to deal with that. Either way, let it go. He’s already cheated on you, he’s messed up in a huge way and now has to deal with the consequences, and you are way too young to be getting involved in this. You’ll find someone else.

Leave him, if he got another girl pregnant, he has a] cheated on you b] no sense of responsibily c] no respect for you

d]no class e]no intelligence f]no heart g]no f*cking BRAIN!

Aha, I should have thought of that xD

Hahaha, well you did great!

leave him its not working if he truly loved you he would be getting another girl pregnant.

obviously he doesnt love you. he is off having babies with other chicks. honestly the worst thing you could do is have no self respect for your self and go back to him you have the rest of your life to live get a guy that will respect you and your wishes and will stick with you and not go off and cheat

you make no sense. it is her problem she has been dating him while he got the other chick prego so it is her deal. his concerns should be on the child now but will it? no. but she can complicate everything because he cheated on her

you make no sense. it is her problem she has been dating him while he got the other chick prego so it is her deal. his concerns should be on the child now but will it? no. but she can complicate everything because he cheated on her

hes obviously not worth your time if he doesent even have enough respect for you to stay faithful. your better than that. i understand it might hurt and it might be hard to. btu what he did wasnt right and you shouldnt have to put up with him and his child and the mother cuz all that will cause is drama and unneeded stress on you.

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if he got another chick pregnant LEAVE HIM! thats terrrible he obviously dosnt care about anyone but himself. you might love him but wouldnt you wrather be with someone who cares about your feelings and not someone who goes out and gets some other girl pregnant? your only 14, you’ll find someone else :)

o my goodness that totally happened to me. he was dating me and i wouldn’t have sex with him because i’m a christian and so he was going behind my back having sex with some other girl. she was like 15 and now she’s pregnant. i told him that i didn’t think it would work because he would always be attached to the other girl on a more deeper leval than with me. if you really love him i would try work it out but if it’s just another random relationship i would end it before you get to hurt. stay friends with him though. help him through it. me and my ex boyfriend are still amazing friends which was really hard for us to do but it ended up being totally worth it.

i agree wit all those ppl if u got another chick prego then he d care about u he only cares about sex n at ur age hes not worth it at all

Once again, try to speak like and ADULT, the childish picture are just annoying.

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She has no right to complicate everything out of anger. She needs to learn to pick better guys.

She has a right to complicate it because it was her boyfriend. How would you feel if that happened to you? Surely you would complicate it. What about if she was older and it was a fiance or a husband? That would also change this. Also he posts this picture everytime someone comments on what he has said. This isn’t isolated.

help this girl out and Mackenzie is right mostly your relationship with him is over

leave him..

here are some words of advice. 1.) hes a crapcicle 2.) your better than him 3.) your 14, it wasn’t gonna last 4.) if he got another girl preggo, he doesnt love you 5.) tell him its over infront of the other girl (or his friends) 6.) remember to get over it asap; dont keep crying and saying i miss him. remember you broke up with him and for a reason. 7.) bffs are 4ever boyfriends at your age are never. 8.) I know it hurts now, but you’ll feel better soon! :)

BREAK UP.BREAK UP.BREAK UP. You shouldent even hesitate, or even THINK about what you should do. Cut off all contact, you should put in your head that he’s dead to you.If your in love with him,you need to accept the truth that he’s not worth ANY of your time obviously. These things happen, get over it. Trip over love, you can get up. Fall in love and you fall forever. Good luck!

you should kick his ass! he cheated on you first of all, went all the way with another girl, and was stupid enough to knock her up. if you keep this dude your seriously messed up.

he got another girl pregnant? there should be no question to ask about this. LEAVE HIM. he cheated on you. he’s already left you. plain and simple; he’s a worthless peice of cr*p.

leave him … it wont work out cuz him and that girl have that baby … so he just cant forget about that …

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What is the point of asking this question…? Are you that blind-sided that you can’t think straight for more then a minute, by love? Let’s think about it. He got another girl PREGNANT, while committed with you. Just kick him out of your life, a half-assed idiot would say same exact thing the EVERYONE else is saying.

Leave him. He needs to take care of him and his new family and you dont need that drama. Work on you love and have fun while you still can <3 Try to wait as long as possible to have children.

omg…wat da f r u toking abt???? dump him now!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!…….

You’re 14 and learning to tolerate such behaviour is not something you want to do. If you make exceptions for this person and do so constantly, then later in life you will probably be prone to the same mistakes. Cheating is inexcusable and at your age, you have better things to worry about than some fool who could replace you at any given moment with a vacuum cleaner and a swob of lube.

Consider your emotions and dignity and let him go. It would be hard for someone to not deserve better and you should be no exception. He’s a jerk.

i wouldnt say leave because your heart will have different plans from your mind. it will be hard but if its meant to be everything will work. i been with my boyfriend for an year and 3 months. i cheated and he know about it. it was hard but we worked through it. just because someone cheats do not mean that person dont love nor care about you because i love my boyfriend to death. the only thing is when i cheated i didnt get pregnant so thats where the hard part come from.. have faith if you really want it to work and get ready for trills and troubles. they will work out if you really want it to.. GOOD LUCK …. JAKALA

I agree with solidjake and satanheadbangstometal (nice). This girl does not have the right to complicate something that is basically not her problem. Yeah, HER boyfriend cheated on her, which resulted in a baby. The cheating boyfriend is her problem, but the baby is the boyfriend’s and the other girl’s. She has no right to make that terrible problem worse than it already is. She’s 14. She’s not married to this boy and he obviously doesn’t respect her enough to not cheat, so I think the easiest thing for EVERYONE in this situation is if this young gal moves on. Then hopefully she will be able to find a boy that not only respects her, but also doesn’t have his own son at 14. That’s just my opinion.

well me personally wouldent stay with somenone like that you deserve better you dont need baggage like that at such a young age live your life and go out with your mates like young people do there right person will b there for you when you older and reay for a rns. not puttin you down by sayin that but get out there and enjoy yourself you dont need to be with someone like that

LEAVE HIM ! . u do not want all that drama !

Thatsz A hugeeeeeee NoNononono Dump him hesz basicallynt worth iht dnt fall in love with ur earsz!!!

run!

dude, that’s awesome! I wish my boyfriend would get another chick pregnant. You are so lucky. I say throw him a big party and ask him to cheat on you some more! Yeah!

hes cheatin on you so dump him an find a diff booy an that boy should use protection cause he might have stds an we dnt want that do we, if you wanna stay with him than be prepared tp be hurt.

If he loved you he wouldnt be sleepin with another girl. When you in a relationship that should be something only share with that person when your ready and not so young.

Leave.

get rid, its bad enough going into a relationship with a guy that has kids but for him to father one while with you is just pushing it..get out and if your 14? fgs get a life before you end up preg yourself and ruining your life..your a kid act like one

yah i agree with tha person b4 me cuz when tha baby comes he’s gonna be focused more on tha baby then yu and yu wont get tha same time and possibly he’ll get closer to the girl he got pregnant because they’re having a baby together so there gonna spend alot of time together so yu should leave him mama sorry ta say…