What can I do about not being able to see my boyfriend until after Christmas?

We have been offical together about a month and a week into the relatiohsip he stole a bunch of movies and video games with his friends and got caught. the police was nice and all so he got off with a warning but hes grounded till xmas and now i don’t get to see him which makes me sad. i didnt kno he was like that wen i got into the relatiohsip. i dont kno wat to tell my parents cuz ther always like howcome u dont see him and i just said he got bad in scool so hes introuble but i can only keep that up for so long. im honeslty anoyed of him right now. do i say somethn? cuz i was just like watever it dosnt matter but it really bothers me.

Answer #1

Save up money and buy him a gift too let him know you missed him during those long dreadful days.

Answer #2

I’d call him (if he hasn’t gotten his phone taken away) and tell him that not seeing him at all until Christmas is really hard and that you want him to promise he’s never going to do something stupid like that again. Just tell him what’s on your mind, and I promise you’ll feel better. And you have every right to be annoyed by all this. I mean I’d be annoyed with him too since now your parents are sort of getting involved and wondering what’s going on & whatnot. I personally wouldn’t have a problem telling my parents about this because they wouldn’t ever be like “you have to stop dating him!” or whatever. They’re just not like that, plus they’ve heard worse. So if your parents are kind of like that, I think it would be a good idea to tell them. But if you think your parents would have a really bad reaction to what your boyfriend has done, I personally wouldn’t say anything. I’d just keep telling them that he’s grounded for getting bad grades or something.

Answer #3

If he’s a trouble maker, then he is going to do this again. He stole videos, that’s minor but still he can do it again. I suggest you find someone else. There are plenty of fish in the sea. You deserve someone who will stay out of trouble for you.

Answer #4

Let your relations ship mature during that time - missing makes the heart grows fonder! Enjoy the time you have with your family or the people you are spending time with.

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