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Bestfriends boyfriend !

Is a jerk. He is constantly hitting on me and telling me if he wasnt with her, he’d be with me. And how he wants to have sex with me. Like really ? Not a good boyfriend. But im kinda falling for him. But my best friend would kill me if she ever knew the things he says to me and the way I feel for him.

Although, I think I might only be sexually attracted to him, but thats scarey too. Since he doesn’t go three weeks without sex, and im a virgin. And I’d like to stay that way.

He asked me not to tell her the things he’d said, but she is my bestfriend, I think she would wanna know whats going on, but if I told he would hate me forever and I dont want that either.

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Answer #1

Why did you just LIE about being a virgin when you one of your other questions said you “may, or maynot” be pregnant?? Trust me Hun, guys know which girls to hit on…word does get around. Maybe he thinks he can get alittle on the side from you, and keep his girlfriend.

Answer #2

You need to decide who or what you want more. If you let this continue then you will eventually assist him with cheating on your bestfriend. Put yourself in her position, would you want her to tell you if your boyfriend was doin the same or would you rather her fall for your boyfriend and eventually have sex with him behind your back. Two wrongs never make a right. So if he’s not man enough to tell your bestfriend, then I would think you need too. At least be a good friend and let her know because if it’s not you then its gonna be some other girl that he cheats on her with. She will get her heart broken and of course you being the BFF she will call you. You could prevent that from happening. Just a thought though.

Answer #3

If he’s doing that behind her back then he’d being doing that to you behind yours if you got together.

Answer #4

get over it and make logical choices based on your own logic.

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