Bad mom?

Well let me introduce myself first, my name is jasmine marie and I live ina little town! Well my question is fairly easy to answer! Ok my mom finally found a guy for her but now she is gone every night with him and only home 1 day out of the week! I am 17 and I know I can take care of myself but I feel alone, no is here to make me feel good, I have a boyfriend but is always working and I have no friends bc I am kinda a goody to shoes and dont like to drink or do drugs, so it is hard to find a good friend aroung here! Is it bad that she is neglecting her kids and always with her boyfriend and not paying for food! Pretty soon I have to go in for orintation but that is not going to be enough to make my life happy!what can I do to make things better???

Answer #1

Unfortunately all you can do is make sure she’s aware of this neglect - it’s troublesome but thankfully you sound like you’ve got together - good character and confident…I wish you every happiness in your future !!

Answer #2

well dad is not here either, he is an alcholic that lives 3 hhours away! but alway tells me he loves me! but never helps me out with $ which is hard cause my mom dont either

Answer #3

The best thing to do is talk to her about how you’re feeling. Tell her your take on things. Hopefully she will understand. Mothers day is coming up soon. Tell her how much you love and miss her.

Good luck :)

Answer #4

your mother is making a selfish decision! she needs to take care of you and not be with her boyfriend all the time! its nice to have a boyfriend but if your negleting your kids its really bad! trust me! my dad neglets me! thank goodness my mom is here for me all the time! I would talk to your mom about how you feel and that its wrong to neglet your kids!

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