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Is it bad to judge guys on looks and popularity?

is it bad to not go out with guys because of their popularity and looks. This guy likes me and hes popular but is really ugly. And I dont want to ruin my repuation for him what should I do?

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Answer #1

if you don’t like him then you don’t have to go out with him but tell him you r not intrested in dating him but tell him in a nice way and tell him you want to b just friends with him still and say it really nice and let him down easy cause you don’t want him to get hurt and discuss it somewhere where no one can here u.:)

Answer #2

Ell: Do you like him? If not, then say no. If so then who cares about what people think? And yes you should be able to look beyond ugliness. Looks are only the very thinnest layer of beauty. Wouldn’t you like to be loved when a semi hits you and burns off your face? When you get old and your skin feels like it will peel off like paper? An ugly friend is more likely to stay with you in your inevitable ugliness and is more likely to be honest to you when you are pretty.

Answer #3

A little vain there huh? Looks don’t get you that far in life it’s you as a person that matters so you shoudl not be hung up on someone elses apperence. Who cares about your rep do what you want not aout your rep. The more you care that more your going to realize it’s not worth it. If you like this guy then go out with him but if the only reason your not not going out with him is to save your rep then your kind of shallow. I’m sorry this is harsh but this is my opinion just from experience of high school drama etc. but just remeber who you are and don’t change for people

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