Backstabbing friend

I just became back friends with my former bff last August and we just stopped staying friends lately since last week I told her that I’ve changed and I didn’t want to be friends with her anymore. She agreed and we said our goodbyes and hung up. Yesterday she sent me a random text calling me a slut since I had a bikini pic up of myself on MySpace (she has always complimented and has even told me that she has wanted my body). I told her to please respect my life and if she doesn’t then fine, just leave me in peace. She just kept on texting me calling me trash, whre, btch, skank… you name it. Just because I have a great boyfriend that I’ve been with for 10 months now when she has nobody and all the guys she’s been with have done her wrong. She was just saying all the stupid crap about she can’t wait until he breaks my heart. I just can’t believe I let her back into my life and I should of known this was going to happen since she did the same BEFORE when we weren’t talking last year!!! I feel SUPER betrayed since I let her back into my life and now she’s betrayed me and is being immature about me spending a lot of time with my boyfriend. Why can’t she be happy for me? I just feel so betrayed and stupid for giving her another chance. I feel like getting her back but I’d just be stooping down to her level. Ugh! Please help me!

Answer #1

She might just really like you and having a hard time with you not being friends anymore. Sure she sounds two faced but maybe shes bipolar or somthin’ , might not be all her fault. If she ever was a good friend it wouldbe easier to fix than to replace.

Answer #2

okay, forget about this girl shes obviously not your freind, real freinds dont do that to each other. this is the kind of girl isn going to have many “real” freinds because shell just keep backstabbing them. dont stoop to her level, she sounds pretty pathetic as it is, and theres really no need to join her..it really just sounds like shes jelouse. theres nothing wrong with spending time with your boyfriend, you should know that. dont pay any attention to any of the things she says, because in another 3 months or so, there not going to matter at all. so block her out of your life, and get on with it!

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