Baby signs?

if your family are going to support you one hundred and ten percent then if you know you can give it what it needs eg good education and a stable environment and all the love you can give then there is no reason for you not to. just make sure noone around you has a problem because you dont want your babys first vital years to be surrounded by your nervous stress or others disapproval. just make sure that even if your partner hubby or the father leaves etc that you will have many people around to support you because being so young, if you dont have support and something happens then you canot provide baby with everything they need. I personally wont hae a baby until I could afford the best of everything to give them.. I assume you would want the same for your baby? instead of having a baby now why dont you get job and save tons of money.. if you have a child it should be able to have all te privledges other children can have because we want the best for our children and if you can provide then your child has more chances in life. Good luck

I think its a sign. im 14 and 2weeks along, I know it doesnt seem alll that long? but its amazing. my baby was planned!! though, and I know im ready for it.. if you want a baby and plan for it,,, then I think you should have one. but the decision is up to you=] and I think you should do whatever you want

dont listen to these haters on here; they said the same things to me, but im gettin along just fine. and I know you will to if you decide to have a baby

I think it’s great that you have a “motherly instinct.” I had my first baby at 23, and I was at a good point in my life. I am able to stay home and raise him while my husband brings home a lot of money. Wait until you can do what I’m doing. If you don’t, you’ll wish you did. When you can properly care for him financially, and are able to give him a full time mother is the right time.

listen I agree with most of the things she said…but honestly not too long ago women married and began having children at 14 or 15 not to mention their marrige ages in other countries in actuality so its more normal than you think to want to have a child women are born with certain maternal instincts and we grow up with them. remember the dolls you carried around and wrapped in blankets? but that dosent mean your ready to have a kid theres more to it than having room in your house and a desire for one trust me I’ve felt ready for a long time…and im engaged!!! im just sayin try to enjoy being young and although you may still want one…decide to babysit instead…that way you can still go to that party the next day. -v-

it might seem like your getting a lot of signs but dont do it, I thought I was ready at 14! I wasnt, however I had my son at 15, I dont regret him and I would be nowhere without him, but he wasnt planned and life is hard, even though we cope it is hard. wait untill you have a job and a home. Dont rush and dont plan a little one just yet, enjoy being able to go out with your friends everyday and doing as you please, it will all change and your childhood will dissappear when you have a child, my lifes gone from a 15 year olds to a 30year olds in a day. Enjoy it while it lasts sweetie. Fun mail me if you want to chat :)

to be honest I think you should have it. if all that stuff really happened, then I really believe its a sign from above! as long you treat the baby right and make sure the baby has a good life.. then go for it. but if you arent going to be responsible then dont do it. its not worth it if you arent ready

Best Plan: education, ring, date, marriage, get financially stable, then baby…Take care !!

Hi.im a mother of 2 and I think you should wait just by me c and a lot of yung mothers where I live.wait til uve graduated and have sum kinda money cumin n.n if you like 2 b out and hang wit your frynes a lot.just wait…cus trust me I c it everydae.one dae ya c em pregnant tha nex they back runnin tha streetzz.not sayn thada b you but trust me its more than wha chu think

Simply a Rose to brighten your day,         And maybe lessen the cares in your way;         And also, too, to help you to know,         That in knowing you, many others grow!       I’ll apologize in advance. This is a post that I posted to someone else. I think it has a lot of valid points, so I’m simply posting it to provide information for you to consider. Please don’t take offense to it.

“I am 15 and I want a baby. So do I what to do?”

Go to bed with a male and have sex. Do this frequently for a month and you are almost certain to become pregnant.

In nine months (when you are 16) you will have a baby. It won’t be a toy that you can discard when times for its attention aren’t convenient for you. It will be demanding and will tax your time and attention.

You will have to drop out of school to give the necessary attention to your child (unless you have a very loving mother who is willing and able to assist you) and you will find that the lack of a high school diploma will come back to haunt you.

You will also find that having a baby interferes with your social life. A lot of your friends will disappear because you and they will be living in “different worlds” and you no longer fit into their social scene.

Then we come to your boy friend. He either becomes less interested in you because a child doesn’t fit into his plans and social life, or he attempts to fulfill his role as a father by getting a job (at the expense of further education) and providing for his new “family”.

Because of his lack of a good education he may be required to take second-rate jobs. Maybe his income alone won’t be sufficient for the needs of the family so you will be required to work too which will create hardships for the child and will lead to family (relationship) problems between you and and your boy friend.

Then there’s the possibility down the road that your boy friend comes to the conclusion that he has bitten off more than he can chew and he leaves (deserts) you and the child.

Or maybe as the child is growing you and/or your boy friend take it out on the child for the fact that you’ve missed out on some of the best times of your lives by having a child prematurely.

True, you, and maybe even your boy friend, may think right now that you and he are able to work things out and overcome all obstacles. That’s a nice dream but the facts and life are against the two of you at such young ages and lack of worldly experience.

The two of you would be many times better off if you wait until you are in your early twenties. That really isn’t so long a wait and it does give both of you a lot more time to get to know each other and life itself.

We often want what we want, right now! But, if we get it right now we often times aren’t really ready for it.

Demonstrate your maturity by giving it time and growing in those ways and with those lessons that are going to serve you for the rest of you’re lives – which will be a very long time.

To sum it up, quit being selfish. Think about what’s best for that potential human being’s NEEDS – not what simply satisfies your current WANTS.

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