well im 15 years old and my boy friend is 16 and we been together since I was 12 and we both are thinking bout a baby very very deeply...n I know were and love ... so were not breaking up n-e time soon and if we do .. he says he will still be there for his child.. and our parents can support us .. we both have jobs... should we wait to finish school or just do it now..??
ok think of this: your in high school and pregnant. what is everyone gonna think? they are gonna call you a slt, whre, and so much more trust me! it cost over $1,000 a year for a baby. and your parents arent going to want to put out that much money. what if somethung happens and your boyfriend breaks uo with you? your gonna be a single mother. please wait at least untill your 18 please. it will be so much easier for the child too. ull miss out of a lot of fun! trust me. my friend is 16 and she had a baby at 15. she doesnt get to go anywhere but school without the baby. and when she comes over she has to bring the baby. we cant go on bikerides anymore. we cant just have fun like we used to. im her only friend now. she used to be really popular and had a ton of friends.but since the baby she only has me. please please please wait. I beg u.
WAIT!!! do not have a child right now! although it may seem like a good idea to the both of you, pregnancy is def hard & stressful on a relationship and theres also after the baby is born, im expecting my first daughter in november im 19 years old & my husband is 23, although I love my daughter to death & would do anything in the world for her I do wish we would have waited just a little longer to make her life easier. wait until you finish school... I've been in your situation, waiting even until now was the best thing I could have done. at 15 your body isnt ready to go through a pregnancy
Everyone's talking about ruining your life. What about the baby's life? How is that baby going to grow up, when you're barely earning above minimum wage, and you cant even live on your own? What about the kids future, you're not going to get an education, and you'll be stuck earning a minimum wage, if you were responsible, you'd wait till you could give your kid the best possible life, and that includes a decent home and you earning a decent wage. Stop being selfish. If you were ready to be parents, you'd be putting the child's future ahead of your own wants.
Watch a couple episodes of "16 and Pregnant" then make your decision. No matter how in love you are, a child will ruin your life. Wait til you're at least 18, or better yet...wait until after college. There's nothing worse than regret, and if you have a baby at 16, your life will be full of "I should have's"
Just wait, I'm sure both your parents would say the same thing I just did.
finish school..my mom got knocked up at 15 the dude left she never finished high school and now she works at wal mart -_- I doubt thats the type of life you want...finish high school go to college get a good job make lotsa dough THEN start popping out babies when yer settled and financially stable..if yous really love each other youd be willing to hold off for awhile.
ok wait for sure!!! no way in hell can two teenagers can take care of a child. it will RUIN your teenage life. make you miss out on lots of fun and totally be super bad for the child to have teenage parents. trust me. think about getting married first too. WAIT! the more you wait the more you'll end up loving your child, your new familly, your husband, and your home.
I would wait until your out of school. I'm 20 and I have a 1 year old but I wish I would waited a lil longer. I mean dont get me wrong I love my daughter to death but it would have been better for me to wait. And you are still young so I would wait
Agreed with ty. 100%
A baby doesn't only need food, it also needs and education and an adult for parents. It's selfish wanting a baby. Children shouldn't have children. Point.
Finish school first. It will make school go so much easier. Having a baby will only cause issues and make everything 1000 times harder than it has to be for both of you...
I would say later. you might regret it if you have one now. asses the risk,problems and upsides before you make your decission. this should make it easier.!
personaly I think you should finish school first so you both have good paid jobs to surport a child
dude. thats so gay. youll lose so many friends. its just not cool
