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Baby Mother?

This guy that I talk to has 3 kids, 3 different baby mothers and I just don’t know what to do. I really love him and he claims he loves me and everything but I just don’t know. He’s a lot older than me so I would expect him to atleast have some kids but damn… I have been doing a lot of thinking and I have come to believe he still loves his last baby mother that have his little girl. They always talk and I know that they have a child but he has her name tattooed on him and he always tells me that was before my time and I shouldn’t be mad. But when I mention her and the way I feel and how I believe he still loves her he says he doesn’t wan to discuss her, I just don’t know could he still be in love with her or am I just jealous?!?!

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Answer #1

The fact that he has THREE exes WITH KIDS tells you a lot about his character. If you think he’s trying to start a long-term relationship with you, think again. He might be with you for awhile, knock you up because he’s that careless about protection, and leave you not long after.

After that he will STILL make you think that all is good by being friends with you after and sees the kid regularly/sometimes. Sure he may come see the kid and talk to you, but will he be there when times are really tough, when you need someone emotionally or someone to help you take care of the crying baby if you need some rest?

Think of the amount of child support this guy pays, if any. Does he even have a good job? How much of a good partner will he be if he can barely be responsible to stay in relationships for the sake of a child? Is he mature enough to handle a relationship, no matter how old he is? Why did he have so many failed relationships? Especially these ones with his children involved?

So many alarm bells ringing, can you hear them?

Answer #2

how long have you to been together?

Answer #3

no lthe babys dad and i are no longer together for a few years and, my kid is no longer a baby but thats a different story. okay this is my question how do i contact cheaters directly or whats the fastes way to get started. anyone

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