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Baby blues

I have been with my boyfriend on and off for four years we are in our late twenties. I am round 8 weeks pregnant and am unsure as to whether to keep the baby.

He has let me down a lot in the past but says he wants us to have a family, do I trust him and give it a shot? or walk away without the risk of bringing a baby up on my own?

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Answer #1

Baby Blues,

I dont know what it is like from your end, but I do know what it is like on mine. I can not have children. And it breaks my heart everyday. I have been married for three years, and we have gotton pregnant, but unfortunatly I have misscarried all of them. We have four deceased children. All my heart has ever wanted was a child., as well as my husbands heart. Now… the thing you truly need to do is follow your heart, it will never lead you a stray.

Answer #2

If I were you, I would give the baby up for adoption. It’s great that you waited until you were married to have children, but it’s not fair for the child if they are born into a bad relationship. However, I would never suggest abortion because that would be unfair to the child as well. So do what’s right and give it up for adoption. There are plenty of adoption organizations you can go to.

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