What to do about my pregnancy if adoption isn't an option?

im 14. and pregnant. I DO NOT want to give the baby up for adoption. what should I do.

Answer #1

What the hell is xxlovehurtsbabyxx talking about?

If you decide to keep the baby then do that. Make sure you have a really good network of help so you get to rest and still have some life. bBies are hard work but they are also very rewarding. I admire your desision to keep the baby but make sure its for the right reasons. No one can tell you not to abort and no one can tell you not to adopt your baby out if you dont think you are ready for one right now. Im sure you will do the best you can and good luck love..

Answer #2

well one of the best things to do is raise it then even though you are just a kid yourself, but sex has its consiquesnces so your going to have to deal with this onemake sure your parents dont mind having the baby around and also helping to take care of it. be sure to get yourself clued up on how to take care for a baby, all the things it will need, and what could possible go wrong. also clue up in commoin sicknesses and ilnesses that babys can get and howto treat them…things like that. make sure you know as much as you can…it would also b good if the father takes part in helping but if thats not the case dont let him put you off. if you want to you can raise the baby without him

Answer #3

I definitely think you should keep the baby or give he/her up for adoption. This is such a hard decision only YOU can make. You really need to talk to a loved one or friend about this and really think it through. :) Good luck on your decision!!!

Answer #4

I am 15 and I would prob. talk to me mother and ask her if she could help me out or I would look into giving it up for adoption I would concider abortion because I am anti-abortion unless you dont know who the father is so I how this helps you<3

Answer #5

if your parents don’t want you to keep the baby && will NOT allow you to live with the baby in their house then I’d chose an open adoption - I know you want to keep the child && I’ve been in your postion. only difference was that I was 17, not 14 – It’s MUCH easier to find a job @ age 16 and up then it is at 14 – there’s really no places that will hire you.. Talk to your parents about keeping the child - eventually they will come around ! Wish you & your baby the best of luck && I’m hoping you get to keep her/him! (= Take care!

Answer #6

How far along are you? Was the sex consensual? I am pro-choice. I know that I can’t really imagine what you’re going through, but as hard as giving up a baby would be, either to abortion or adoption, so would having this child when you are ill-prepared to take care of it. Any decision will have a huge impact on your life. One of them will be better for you.

Answer #7

Think about it. I honestly don’t believe a 14-year-old can raise a baby. If you put it up for adoption it will have a much better life and a much better future.

Answer #8

Have the baby and raise it or murder it. Take your choose. I would personally choose and open adpotion. Where you choose the parents and they update you on your child and they send pictures and videos of things and you could go to birthdays and things of your child. When he.she is old enough maybe they’d even come and see you.

Answer #9

well from what you saying I think you should talk to your parents if they dont know your pregnant to see if they will help you and second that’s your baby you should’nt give it in adoption it’s your’s and I think that if you put the baby in adoption one day you will say I should of kept my baby so first think of what your going to do.but it’s your choice.

WISH YOU SO MUCH LUCK!!! MAY GOD BE WITH YOU

Answer #10

I was saying that she needs to either Raise it give it up for open/closed adoption or kill it. Ugh, I hate freaking little kids. Why don’t they freaking use a condom at least? It’s not like there much money or you can’t get them at a certain age.

Answer #11

First, even though your young, I’m glad your taking the responsibility of keeping your baby. Does your parents know your pregnant? If not, you need to talk to them and let them know, to see if they will help you & support you. B/c you are too young to get a job to support your baby, so you’ll need a support system. Babies are hard work sweetheart. I had one at 18, and it is hard! I wish you luck. May God be with you! =)

Answer #12

I think you should keep it or give it up for adoption.It is all up to you.

Answer #13

I think you should keep it or give it up for adoption.It is all up to you.

Answer #14

don’t kill the baby that’s the most horrible and bad thing you can do to a baby it’s sad how people just kill their own baby’s and I think those people don’t even have feelings but if you would know how they kill the baby’s don’t do an abortion.

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