Are we falling apart?

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Its almost been two years of our relationship and im not sure if were falling apart or not. We were great in the begining we never hung out for the first six months in our relationship. We were always happy and smiling. But in away I feel that we will never have that again. I try to do my best to keep us together after the things that happened in the past. Like. Me braking up with him to hangout with someone else and something happened. Like him going to the bar and bring the girl home and just hanging out with her then taking her out to eat at 4 in the morning. Like him talking to me and another girl and me finding out. But we’ve tried putting that all behind us. But I feel like were falling apart in away. Like ex. Today he took a 2 hour nap I woke him up tryng my hardest to be nice but my hands were cold so he started getting mad and calling me a b and flicking me in the head so I hit him then he bit me then I pinched him. Then he called me the b word really loud. Then after awhile he took his knee and shoved it up between my vagin- and my as-. I started balling my eyes out and he goes I do it to my cousin and it dont hurt her. Which he knows that im very sensitive I get hurt very easily and I never grew up wrestling and fighting with my dad or cousins or guys. I was still crying and he was calling me a baby and telling me to grow up =/. What do I do?

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Answer #1

I know how much you want this to work, but I honestly don’t think its working. You need to look at it from someone else’s perspective. You know when you see those women getting treated like sht by their boyfriend and the woman doesn’t notice and you just want to go up to her and shake her head and go “hes treating you like sht, leave him” but she never understands? I’m really sorry to say but… that woman, is you. I know you have known a girl at least some point in your life that has gotten treated like garbage and you always wanted to tell her to move on but never could. I know its pobley hard for you to accept because you have dated for so long and it would be hard to let go. But hun, you need to, for your own safety. I’m so worried about you. Hes stomping on you like a piece of trash, hes done you wrong in the past and you forgave him and did he clean his act up? No. Hes taking advantage of your trust. You always forgive him, and he knows you’ll forgive him and thats why he does it. “It doesn’t matter when I do, she’ll come back and forgive me” thats what he thinks when hes about to do something. The reason why I’m so worried about you is because hes verbally abusing you, this WILL turn into physical abuse really soon. You need to get out of this relationship as soon as you can, I guarantee its the best thing for you right now. I don’t want you to end up in the hospital or in the back of a car that isn’t taking you home hun, if you catch what I’m saying. Hes dangerous to you and he sounds like he has a lot of anger, someday soon that anger is going to be in your face and your going to wish you had of left. Please hun, do it for yourself.

Answer #2

Oh my gosh… this is ridiculous, you should have seen my face while I was reading this.. apparently he is abusive.. girl! let him go! he is not worth it if he does not know how to treat you, girl, there are one too many men out there, and he does NOT need to be treating you like that, let him know that he can be replaced.. Talk to him about it, let him know you do not appreciate the way he treats, and treated you.. these are some of the disadvantages of dating super older guys… Give it a couple of days consideration since you guys have been in a relationship for so long, but I would personally just let him go… because he apparently has issues treating you like this… Let him go… but if not, he will just see you as young, and vunerable, and know that you will let him do whatever, and just keep using you… and this is someone you wanted to move in with? Anyhow.. good luck. lemme know if you have any other questions..

GOOD LUCK GIRL. lol. :]

Answer #3

Your questions really confuse me!! One minute you love him and want to move in with him and then you are trying to get pregnant with his baby. And now he is abusing you!!! You need to decide what you want. You dont seem like yall are doing very good together with the hitting and so maybe you should break up. Or at least have some time apart.

Answer #4

well it’s like this either yall want to be together or not. You guys maybe be fallin out but yall need to talk either he want to be with someone else or not. talk it over if you are so concerned then you must really like this guy which means stay with him!

Answer #5

yes um.. that is called abuse. he ISN’T worth it. my girl angelle ^^^ is right. you have to have some self-respect and just leave him. you can’t be putting yourself in that position. you’re too pretty to be with someone so stupid. you can’t be with someone who disrespectes, and abuses you.

Answer #6

baby doll, the more I hear about him the more I think you’d be far happier without him. When was the last time he did something truly nice for you, just for you, going out of his way to make you happy? Do you remember?

Answer #7

hun he’s abusive and has cheated. you have to end it. I know how hard it will be…trust me I know. but you must.

Answer #8

yea jst like eveyone else said break up with him…it’s going to be hard really hard but you gotta do whats right for you

Answer #9

Ummm okay Well.. you been with him for two years now.. the same with my boyfriend now… we have a long history and all that nice stuff… It doesnt sound like your falling apart maybe you guys are seeing eachother too much.. and when you see someone to much all you do is argue and fight… but it sounds like he is really mean.. I would maybe try to talk to him and tell him how you feel that it hurts when he does this I know how you feel I get hurt easy and bruise easy as well… Well the biggest part of a relationship is communication and trust… As long as you two are communicating well and telling him on how you feel.. and if you guys are trusting then you guys shouldnt be falling apart … I would try talking to him and maybe spending less time together. it should be okay good luck!!! ☆☆

Answer #10

OMG!! THAT IS SO RUDE I THINK YOU GUYS SHOULD TAKE A BREAK AND GIVE EACH-OTHER SOME SPACE! OR IF YOU DONT WANT TO DO THAT TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL AND ASK HIM DO YOU WANT TO BE TOGETHER DO YOU WANT TO TAKE A BREAK OR DO YOU JUST want TO BREAK UP FOR GOOD! AND IF HE WANTS TO BE WITH YOU THEN TELL HIM WELL WE NEED TO TALK THINGS OUT WE NEED TO WORK THINGS OUT! TELL ME WHAT HAPPENDS AND ILL GIVE YOU MORE ADVICE K LOVE YA LOTS girl

Answer #11

Hey I got here late but yeah what everybody else said! just do it!.. Goodluck!

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