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Are all guys jerks?

It seems that I have the worst of luck! :( Every guy I “date” ends up being jerky. When I mean date I mean I don’t really know them to well but they found me attractive and approached me, so I liked the attention and dated them; like once or twice… until I found out they were jerks. I’m a really good girl. I don’t party much and not into that whole party scene. But guys I guess up til there are 25 are in the party zone and I guess aren’t looking for a real girl to settle down with. But please tell me how do I meet a real nice guy? and do they still excist? I feel like if you want a nice guy you MUST become his friend first for a while and then decide if you like him more than. Dating by just looks is bull sh**. Ughhh.

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Answer #1

I was on your boat once. But it didn’t last to the point you would call it a “ date “ LOL! Basically, I found out about them from head to toe without being too what would you call it? “into them” I never really fell in love either…because they didn’t play their game right … they made stuff obvious to the point that they made a blind person “ SEE “ their stupidity. Anyways, love isn’t ALL THAT or how would I say it? all cracked up to be what it seems. I mean sure you see couples…but sometimes their happiness isn’t real and could be fake to make their image look good. So, don’t think every happy person you see is “ really happy “ Anyways, kind of went on to another subject but all I am saying is don’t rush into falling in love..because you are more likely to fall into a big hole you might not get out of. So, live you life happy & single. It will come on it’s own without you noticing. Be into your self & love yourself. Don’t be too much into a guy because in life you have to make money…LOVE doesn’t feed you or put food on the table. A guy doesn’t bring happiness. Relationships sometimes bring misery rather than happiness. Love is not for everyone remember that. Look at all these successful women in the entertainment industry that are single. They are having fun. Keep this in your head… If a guy is with you because of your looks…you don’t need him because looks leave and the heart & mind stays. You want a guy who will respect your mind and heart and how you feel about certain issues in life. So, basically go for a guy who has something in common with you because it lasts more than looks. Not all guys are JERKS. It’s just the few dumb guys that didn’t treat you right that made you feel this way.

Answer #2

I think that you should be friends with a guy be for you become boyfriend or girlfriend i am in a relationship rite now that i rushed into witch was not smart, if i was not lucky and had one of those jerks as a boy friend then I would be very sad and hurt and I would be thinking the same thing.. But my brother is 21 and has is one of the most inspirational cool awesome sweet guys i have ever met he respects people with a passion.. I Know there are amazing guys out there and because I have a wonderful boyfriend and A wonderful brother and my cousin that my brother lives with is great! My brother is single because he is wighting for the right girl. He just went on his first date ever a cupple weeks ago and i know that the girl he marries will be wonderful so take you time and be friends first or just date people. make sure that you find out what you like and what you do not like in a guy and whats important for them not to do and whats o.k. for them to do..

Answer #3

its because they most of em are immature. not all of us guys are like that.

Answer #4

Not all guys are jerks. There are tons of great guys.

Maybe you’ve been dating for looks. See, when you go after guys that have great bodies, faces, cool car, and all that stuff, sometimes the personality lacks. Go for personality first.

Answer #5

HONEY YES THEY DO I HAVE DATED TOTAL ASSHOLES IN MY PAST I HAVE NOW FOUND THE PERFECT GUY IM 21 AND JUST NOW FOUND THE GUY I WANT TO SETTLE WITH WE HAVE A BABY ON THE WAY AND HE TREATS ME LIKE GOLD. U WILL FIND UR PRICE CHARMING WHEN THE TIME IS RIGHT JUST MAKE FRIENDS WITH GUYS UNTILL U GET THE FEEL OF HOW THEY ARE IT COULD TURN INTO MORE BETWEEN U AND A GUY FRIEND THATS HOW ME AND MY LOVE FOUND EACHOTHER. GOOD LUCK

Answer #6

Aw thanks snow_white! Good advice. Could you answer my other advice questions too?! :)

Answer #7

NOT ALL OF US ARE JERKS , IT IS BECAUSE THEY ARE IMMATURE

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