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Any tips on getting over guys?!!

I’ve REAAALLY liked someone for 4 years now and nothing had happend, I dont get it because hes not much of a nice person and hes not THAT good looking either, just something about him. He knew I liked him and took advantage and now we dont speak. I know its time to move on but its SOO HARD!! :( I cant get him off my mind, what am I playing at? how can I get over him?

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write down 10 things that you like about you. Write an Ideals list of the type of qualities the man of your dreams would have. Dont be a victim. He took advantage of you? It takes two. We allow people to have control over us . . personal boundaries are ways we respect ourselves because we deserve to be treated good. :) I always have a choice to let people into my life or out of my life according to how they treat me. If they have a negative impact on me, then I do not choose to have them in my life anymore, until they change, and if they dont then . . oh well. We deserve good things in our lives.

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