Anti-Social Crisis: How do I make friends and enjoy it?

I think you first need to make friends with people who have something in common with you. Be it games, horseback riding, books, movies, whatever. Get something that connects you guys together.

By the way, there will always be a lot of politics and stuff among some friends. Those people who gather to party? - They’re probably putting their disagreements aside just to have fun for the night. But yes, groups of great friends do exist, and it takes a lot of understanding and socialization to get to know each other so much that they start to feel like they are family.

Like any relationship, there are a lot of give and takes that need to be done. You can’t just judge people off the bat either. You might find one day a bunch of people who totally sync with you.

Also, a lot of people pretty much forget their school friends after they graduate, because a lot of them aren’t mature enough or were close enough with you to have a long lasting bond. You may keep in touch with a friend or two, but as you grow older, you change interests and gain other interests, and that’s where you can make friends along the way..