Signs to give him

Well, I’m going to start off by saying that you should not be having sex at your age (let alone, be giving oral sex, etc). If you are scared and you can’t even ask for oral sex, then having sex itself should wait. It if is pleasure you want, try other things… Sex at your age could lead to a lot of unwanted publicity and even more regret. It is easy to ‘feel’ ready, but ‘being’ ready is a different story and no one here wants to see you feel bad about making a choice like that.

If you have been performing oral sex on your boyfriend, then asking him to return the favour should not be such a hard choice to make. If you end up performing oral sex on him again, it might be a good time (whilst in the process) to ask him how he would feel if you asked him to do it to you. Oral sex is much safer than sex itself and the odds are that you know very little about the topic. Oral sex (if you are both free of STD’s and cold sores, etc) is a much safer option. For someone your age I wouldn’t even recommend oral sex, but it is a much better alternative to having sex.

Just talk to your boyfriend about this. You should not feel guilty for asking, seeing as you are doing more to pleasure him than he is actually doing for you. Returning the favour shouldn’t be such a tough ask for him and the odds are that he’ll be willing to try it. Just be careful because all of these sexual activities are things that you shouldn’t be engaging in at your age. You could get a bad reputation (which could stick with you for a long time) and these activities could have other negative impacts in the future. I hope all turns out well…