What do I do about him talking to this other girl?

Me and my boyfriend have been together now for 2 years, and there is this other girl that I think is trying to get with him. she talks to him every night and she says she knows him from when they were little. my boyfriend has never seen her, but I have, and she is not pretty!!! so, every night when he is talking to her, and im beeping in on the other line, he ignores my call. but, when shes calling in, he hangs up on me to talk toher. He said last night that she was prettier than me, hes only seen a myspace picture of her. He promises hes not cheating but I dont know. what advice does anybody have???!!! : (

Answer #1

no guy should tell their girlfriend that any other girl is prettier then her. I know it’s not easy to do this but you should talk to him and tell him that you don’t trust him and that you think you should go on a break. Guys don’t usually admitt that they are cheating so he probably is. You can find someone that will always put you first. You shouldn’t let him treat you like that. good luck!

Answer #2

It doesn’t matter if he’s cheating or not, what’s he’s doing is disrespectful to you, and it’s obviously hurtful.

I’d drop him. If you’re his #1, then you’re his #1. Obviously, he doesn’t feel that way.

Answer #3

He is not giving you the respect you deserve. What kind of guy ignores his girlfriend to talk to some other girl? And why would you let him do that to you. He is not treating you the right way, and cheating or not cheating.. you should not stick aroung and let some other girl come in between you guys.. Show him that your the one who calls the shots.. dont put up with it! Leave.. no guy should put a random girl infront of his girlfriend

Answer #4

I would very concerned right now because even if he’s not cheating on you, what he is doing is not respecting you or the relationship that he has with you. He doesn’t need to be talking to another girl more than he talks to you. It’s not a good sign if he’s ending phone conversations with you just to talk to this other girl that he’s met on Myspace. If a guy was doing this to me and telling me that she’s prettier than I am, then we would be over.

Answer #5

Ask him if he’s cheating or thinking about cheating.

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