Annoying twin sister

Okay..I dont see anything wrong lol, you sound as a pretty normal average person, whos pretty cool doung multimedia! Although, try and get stronger- it will help in life. But as for boyfriend, I personally, dislike being a leader in a relationship, I ca equally be spontaneous, but when the other person is only relying on you it can get boring after a while…its like my bro told me only - a girl thats lying in bed like a dead fish thinking shes the princess isnt worth my time and strength…Yep, I learned a lot from brother-hes mean and sarcastic…but seriously, in relationship, both sides just have to work equally as hard and be spontaneous to change things. Being relaxed in relationship is good but also bad…Tell him to take initiative and surprise you. If he wont, and is you get married to such a guy…you will be the man of the the house and he’ll be pretty much a lady if you’ll keep doing everuthing lol…

Oki, I think I’ll better stop till I’ll totally freak you out…seems im in a chatty mood :D

PS. TELL YOUR SIS TO KEEP HER NOSE IN HER OWN GARDEN, AND STOP FLIRTING WITH people!!!

OKAY BACK TO THE TOPIC…

Tell sis not to meddle with your boyfriend, and tell her to stay on her side of personal life etc. Learn to stand your ground. Seems she’s trying to outdo you, by getting stronger, show her in time where she stands. Watch your sis and what she’s doing. Dont react to her doings- ignore completely as in dont get emotional - on the outside course, and inside accept her as she is. I know it aint gonna be busy, but do become stronger. And one more thing, try to have less disagreements, if anyone is trying to start a fight, and if you know the reason say the reason straight to face and say you will agree to discuss it but not fight. As for getting pissed at sis - its tricky, but the more you get pissed the more she’ll do, if you ignore, she’ll keep doing things…So ignore emotionally, but tell her that:

You dislike her getting so close to your boyfriend, ask her, for what reasons did she decide to meddle or try to create drama. Tell her to grow up, and look after her own business.

NO, you cannot let her her be, instead tell her where she stands. And as far as I can see it, she will either (at the current way of things going), destroy your privacy together with your private life, or your boyfriend will leave you. All you can do then, is be you…She does sound like a person who creates intrigues and barges into ppls lives, maybe am bit exaggerating, but I think she should KNOW where she stands and where the boundary starts and ends. Dont let her manipulate you.

It is a very difficult situation. Try talking to her bout it, be serious. But I would advise on you getting stronger mentally before talking to her. Try building up your inner strength and confidence. It must be somewhere in you right? Wake the feeling up, dont be a miss nice anymore, dont let anyone step over you, she’s your sis so she should too start acting like one, to me it sounds like a major competition for a first prise or something…

Tell your sis to back off, reason for her being nice to everyone id say is near domination of your personal life…Learn from her, watch her, and yet, be nice to her. Be extra close to your boyfriend and your friends, and be close to her and her boyfriend and friends. If it backfires and she’ll get mad, just say sorry- you thought it was okay since she was doing same in your private life which concerns YOUR boyfriend and YOUR friends…

Tell her that you dont like her getting close to your boyfriend and his family- say it makes you uncomfortable and if she doesnt back off, tell her again and again. If she doesnt stop- think of a perfect crime to stop her from doing so again.

Actually, answer these,

1. how long you with your boyfriend?
2. what does your boyfriend do for you?
3. how quiet are you around people, or how social?
4. what conversations you usually have with people you meet? like which topics, personal, social, gossip??
5. how easy do you change your mind?
6. are you decisive?
7. are you flirtatious? is your sister flirtatious?
8. do you complain bout anything?
9. are you a good listener??
10. if in college what do you study and what are you areas of interest? (science, politics, education…)

Answer truthfully, and give 200% criticism towards yourself k?? And then I’ll tell you all I think..

thanks kaira :) you are really helpful ..I will do like you said ^^.. but..she is good in influence people around her..if I do it..how can they will like me?..even my boyfriend’s besties like her a lot than me~ how can I to convince them? I tried to talk to them before..but seems nothing . and I thought I would be a bored person, and tried to spoke to them like the way she did but still, its nothing. and I asked my boyfriend, are his friends don’t like me or what?..but he just denied..he said his friend is good bout us. but, why his friends move away our tagged photos in myspace..(so did she)..

Okay, have fun!!

Youre still young, so learn and grow innerwise as much as you can. Knowledge gives strength if used in a right way. Next time someone pushes their opinion on you, say no and tell that you think otherwise, and yet agree with fact they have their opinion, but you have yours. Just in general, learn to say no…And with it, learn to stand up for yourself and your beliefs when needed. ;)

but she is strong than me..if I did the same, she will do more and more..maybe since we are born, I’m the quite one and unable to defeat her . one thing I can defeat her is in education..but in life~ geh~ I’m too week.. that’s why when I did the same thing to her (get close with her boyfriend and friends) she felt pissed off me..felt it is annoying her. but she did the same things to me..should I just let her be?

sorry for my broken english :D

ps.. your english is quite perfect!! :))