Am I wrong or her?

I agree with you and with amblessed. I can understand why it might be difficult for her, but it’s certainly not a mature way to handle it, and it is not fair to you and the kids. She’s the one who’s really missing out here though. Pushing you away isn’t going to give her what she thinks her life is lacking.

Do you two talk about this much? It might end up being one of those situations where there just isn’t much you can do. If she wants to sit around feeling sorry for herself, you might not be able to change that, and it really isn’t your job to anyway. With a family of your own, you have enough to do and to worry about without having to worry about a grown woman who should be able to handle a little envy!

if u got kids and then u meet someone they shud be prepared for the whole package , what ever u do is dont out her in frount of ur kids it would be the biggest mistake of ur life!! but if u like this person tell her nad say what is her problem ,it might be something worth working on and if its not then , iguess its not meant to be , but then u have made the effert and thats all u can do ,it takes 2 to make a realtioship work, and when theres kids invoolved then she shouldnt be mucking u around adn playing the victum but surporting u adn ur kids!! just talk to her and see what she wants!! X