Am I wrong?

Maybe hes telling you everything you want to hear, so he can get in your pants. When a boy has a girlfriend, and tells another girl he loves her, would you honestly want to be with someone like that? He cant be trusted to be faithful to one girl! Hes being dishonest, and basically cheating on his girlfriend… he’ll do it to you too!

he dostnt want to hurt her but he wants to MARRIE me!!!>>Hun, if that were true, dont you think he would be dating you, and not someone else? Hes saying he wants to marry someone hes not even in a relationship with…does that make sense to you? Hes handing you so many lines, and you just keep biting. Have you ever heard the saying, “Actions speak louder than words”? It means hes saying one thing, and doing another. Thats NOT an honest person. If you dont back off, you are the one whos going to end up with a broken heart!

ok seriously I think it’s kind of wrong and harsh to hurt someone in a relationship especially when it’s your best friend’s. I would never hurt my friend in any way possible because then I know it’s going to come back to me 10 times worse. Yeah you may end up with each other and think all is well but really you’re going to have a lot of complications. I suggest you let them decide on what to do.

Hold on - lets back this up. This situation sounds like a mix between jealousy and obsession, it really does. How do you know that she doesn’t care about hurting you? And if she has hurt you it doesn’t make it right for you to hurt her in return. I think you need to back up and let him deal with his relationship and stop trying to get in the way. You want to marry him? That’s really extreme.