Am I ready for children? Help!! Any opinion is appreciated!!

You are focusing on the negatives…not the JOY…they will by FAR outweigh - your ages are just right - I would prayerfully approach the issue…Take care !!

I felt the same why you do before my daughter was born. All the doubts and worries dissappered when she was brought in to this world. I can’t see me or my husband without her. She has brought us closer together and I am glad I choose to have childern.

You said yourself that you want children, so think about this - the older you get, the more risks you run of something going wrong.

There is no “perfect” time to have a child, but when you’re in a stable relationship and you’re financially and emotionally ready to care for a child, then what’s stopping you?

You’ll never get over your doubts - they’re natural…the only way to get past it is to jump in with both feet and take that first step.

Just remember one thing…having a child with someone you love is a step to growing closer and strengthening the bond you two already share.

Picture this your in your home holding your new baby with your husband by your side.The perfect little face.Ten toes ten fingers.A beautiful bouncing baby. Yes there will always be obsticles in life but we over come them when we are parents.Haveing kids dont really change much except the fact that youll have to grow up. Youll have expensis no matter what you do. There is always complications with every day life. Every day you take risks just getting out of bed daily is a risk.Question is are you mature enough to take they risks? If you say yes then there is your answer. if you say no then you have made that choice.Good luck to you.