Does this make me prude?

Does it make you prude if you won’t let a guy finger you and you wont give a guy a blow or hand job. I still kiss and hold hands and stuff though but I am afraid to do that stuff and plus I think blow jobs are disgusting (no offense to neone who has done it ) but does this make me prude?

Answer #1

I was a straight up prude until I was almost 18 and got my first serious boyfriend! I remember just really feeling grossed out by a lot of guys. I valued myself and felt that so many simply weren’t worth me letting them stick their tongue all over me. Some boys are simply not worth it, and they act like they are entitled to your body. All my girlfriends were doing all that crap since we were 14 and calling me a prude, etc. I thought something was wrong with me because I thought their boyfriends were gross and ucky and I didn’t want to touch them with a ten foot pole. And you know what? I was right!

The bottom line is that i just wasn’t ready until I was ready, and the same with you. When you’re in love, you’ll know it. And you’ll know when the time is right to go further little by little. Just enjoy being young and selective. You’re a good girl!

Answer #2

Definitely NOT! You are the one guys will want to marry in the end, because you wont be all used up. (as in being easy) Dont ever let anyone think you are a prude for not doing anything sexual with a boy. Just tell them you’ll do it someday with the man youre gonna marry!

Answer #3

Oh yes….I totally agree with Juniperone….im getting close to 18 and still a virgin…I was dating a guy 3 1./2 years older and he told me the thing he respected me the most was the fact i was still a virgin…it was so refreshing to him and we even talked about marriage…but his family didn’t approve that i as 17 and he was 20 and we had to split up….but what im saying is stick to your guns girl…..the nice girls will win!

Answer #4

No, it doesn’t make you a prude.. it makes you smart.

Answer #5

only do what you are comfortable with… and you shouldnt care what others think/say

Answer #6

thanx guys u helped a lot = )

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