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Am I just jealous?

Hey, well me and my ex broke up in February and are still friends and everything is ok.however this girl that we are both mates with, through me, told me the other week that she likes him, which annoyed me and I said to her that she can do what shes wants but I dont feel comfortable with it.To make things worse though, she told me a few days after that he liked her.I dont know how to feel, I dont want to be bitter about it but it makes me unhappy beacuse I feel betrayed that my friend and ex like eachother in that way, and I have to deal with them both like I dont care but I do and I dont know why because im over my ex. What do I do? or am I just being complicated? :-/ x

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Any ex you are always going to have feelings on another level. Of course you are jealous. You feel like your friend is stepping in on your territory.

Its like an unsaid rule. You don’t date your friends ex’s

If you did ask you how you felt about it or if you were okay and you told her yes. then she has every right to pursue him. If you feel uncomfortable about something, speak your mind.

Best of luck. Remember jealousy ruins relationships.

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