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Am I being selfish about my sister getting distant?

Well.. my Sister and me have always been really close done most things together nd told eachother everything.. now she got a boyfriend its all bout him nd her nd i have been erased out of the picture nd even wen itlk to her bout diff stuff she is always on her phone nd doesnt seem to be listenin to me.. im glad she got a boyfirend as she been alone for soo long but i neva thoughht a man would stand in the way of mine nd her relationship am i being selfish in thinking like this plz answer x

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Answer #1

Not easy but you do your part to be close and never give up - think I might drop her a note, ‘I know you’re busy these days but I miss the sister closeness..so, I’m here when you’re ready’..simple but to the point..I wish you two the very best !!

Answer #2

It’s ok to want to spend more time with her, but you have to make sure she has some space too. It’s very common for people to only want to be with and talk to their partner when they are younger, especially teenagers. It’s probably something that she will grow out of.

In the meantime, maybe you two could set up some alone time together, say Saturday afternoons for lunch or something like that, where you two can talk without him and without her being on the phone with him.

Answer #3

no, here’s a what if:he break’s up with her, who’s gonna be there? you, and for her to brush you off for a guy is wrong, if she dosent listen to you and hardly aknowlage’s your company well..tell her how you feel and that if she dos’nt stop it when and if she fall’s from being hurt..you’ll let her.

Answer #4

Hiya Thanks for the advice helps a lot thankoo x

Answer #5

tell her how u feel!!

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