Am I gay or bi?

Well now, first off.. I’ll start of by saying that being bisexual, doesn’t mean you want to have sex with a person of either sex. Being bisexual means you have the potential to be attracted to either sex. Some bisexuals, like me, may be attracted to each sex in a different way; but basically, we are capable of loving people of either sex, this can include physical, sexual, and emotional attraction to and/or relationships with men and women. These attractions may change over time, in one way or another. I was in the same boat about 2 years ago, and it’s a little stressful. After my girlfriend leff me,I realized that instead my usual,”I can see why a girl would find him attractive!” It was, “Wow! I find him attractive!” I didn’t say anything for awhile, untill it happend more often, and I found myself attracted more and more people, of both genders. There’s a chance, it may just be a phase, 90% of people have homoerotic tendancies, but it doesn’t mean they’re gay or bisexual. My advice.. talk to someone who’s gone through this and share stories and talk about what all is going on in your life.

Hope it helps