Will I ever have sex with a guy?

I’ll be 20 years old in 2 months and I’m still a virgin. And get this: I’m a lesbian and the only reason why I think I’m a lesbian is because I’m scared of a penis but I want a penis inside of me. Every time I masturbate or my girlfriend is giving me oral sex, I think about a guy entering me. On several occasions I have tried sexual intercourse with 5 different guys and I’ve made them stop because it hurt so much. Now I think I will never have sex! What should I do? This isn’t normal at all.

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Answer #1

Sounds to me like you arn’t a “ lesbian” but bi-sexual. or as some call it bi curious. Pain is a difficult thing to experiance during something that is for “Intended for pleasure”, (title of a good book) You might want some profesional help or further information. Good information can be had at theclitoris.com and other sites.

Answer #2

Ok you just need to face your fears. You do have sexual experience so thats a positive start, now when you are with a guy all you need to do is relax, make sure you are both lubed up pretty good so it doesnt hurt as much and let him enter you, once he is in and starts moving it will start to feel good, it just takes time and practice thats all so you need to get over your fears for you to make any progress.

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