Alcohol and erections

This is harsh, but… The only way to fix this is to drink less. And if he would rather drink till he’s drunk than have sex, then you both have big problems. He may well be an alcoholic if he continues to drink in spite of relationship problems, and you may be a co-dependant who is enabling the problem.

If he controls his drinking - gets sober - there are medications to help with erectile dysfunction, but at mid-twenties he shouldn’t be having ED unless drugs (like alcohol) are in his system, OR maybe he should see a doctor. In a men ED is sometimes one of the first symptoms of circulatory disease. What ever it is, I do hope for the best for you both. Good Luck!!

What’s more important? Getting drunk or having sex? A man in his 20’s having ED when he has a few drinks should not be drinking at all. He might also have an underlying problem that requires some medical intervention. He should have an appointment with a urologist and have himself evaluated both physicially and emotionally.

y dont you try using some oils or lotions from like a sex store. they sell some to make the guys stay hard longer and that might get him up. they even have some warming oils that work good too. just look around, they even have little vibrators for guys that might make him excited, if you dont know of any stores you can always get them online.

He doesn’t do anything other than drink beer he doesn’t even smoke. If he has a couple he’s fine it’s only a problem when he’s drunk.

well you never know what it could be, for example if he does certain types of drugs or takes certain pills that will kill the erection, and he will not be able to get up at all until he is off of them.