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Advice on my friendship?
Well I know I’ve posted quite a few q’s about this, but right now I don’t know what to do. I’ve read everyones advice but they’re not listening.
They completely ignored me at diner today and were obviously talking about me. You know when your walking over to someone and theyre looking at you and laughing, then when your like ‘hey, what you talking about?’ they just reply ‘oh nothing’.
It’s upsetting me so much that they’re leaving me out. It’s also annoying that they act totally different if I’m the only one there. They’ll talk to me like nothing ever happened and both of them always go off with eachother.
The other day when I was going to line up for tutor they practically SPRINTED away from me. I was going to try and catch up but I just thought ‘what the f*ck is the point?’ and walked to the yard. Then when I got their they lied and said ‘sorry, I had to go hand something to a teacher’, eventhough I KNOW they didn’t, because I watched them run outside.
They constantly mock me and are like ‘you hair looks so frizzy!’ just because I don’t straighten it for school (because theres no point as we have to tie it back), or ‘I can’t get past you, you fat lass’
It’s knocked my confidence so much and they do it deliberately.
It’s not only me they do it too either. Another girl hangs round with us, we’re generally like a foursome. But one of them is ALWAYS horrible to her when I’m there. She complains about how annoying she is and how she hates her, but then when shes the only one there…well, you can guess this, but she’ll be like…her best friend. She always runs away from her aswell and I feel so mean for her, because when they do it to me it makes me feel so awful, so it must make her feel bad too. I don’t understand that girl most (the one that complains how she hates my other friend. She’s the one that ditched me to go out shopping with someone else). She can be such a b\tch, then at other times, shes nice.
Sorry for repeating myself, but I need advice on what to do now, and I just needed to get it off my chest.
(also, sorry if this is so long)
You know, I think your so-called friends are quiet childish and they’re having a lot of fun at your expense. Its time to stop even thinking of them as friends, because they aren’t. Even if they’re sometimes nice… that’s not enough for even acquaintance status, in my books.
It’s time for you to move on and find people who are closer to your level of maturity. You don’t need them at all, and I think you should just pretend they don’t exist any more. If they come to you and say hi, say hi back, be polite and friendly but distant and preoccupied with something other than “them.”
You don’t need them at all. I can tell by the way you write that you’re intelligent and mature.
well I’m in a simlar situation 2 you really I think these girls really need you as a friend, they just don’t no it its this thing wiv girls boys just fite and make up but us girls cnt thts why we have 2 stick 2getha I sumtimez have 2 ask myself : why do I call thm frends if they don’t want to b wiv me, if they run away frm me. but the truth is if you wurnt there they would fall 2 pieces I hadnt made off 2 a v. gd strt at mi skl so I got the girls hu no1 wanted 2 hang around wiv but sumtimez you have 2 go out in2 that world and meet new people somewhere out there is someone hu is your perfect friend, your soul sister uve just gotta find thm x
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