Men, do you run if she has children?

Well ma’am if you want my honest answer, many men shy away from women with children for 3 reasons.

1. It at times can feel like an instant commitment, like the woman has obviously had a real relationship in the past and its difficult for most men to handle that up front. Granted, there are the exceptions but as far as the general public is concerned that’s my number one answer.
2. Children often scare away men because they know that they will never be number 1 in that women’s life. They will always come second (or third in your case) and that’s terrifying.
3. If a man has a hand in raising your children he’s eventually going to hear “you’re not my father” from your children. Not many men are ready for that.

I’m sorry if that wasn’t what you were looking for but I tried to be as honest as possible.

On the other hand, the men that aren’t scared away by children are most of the time some of the few men that aren’t scum. So if you are ok with not being instantly with a man the time you take to look is going to pay off.

I hope I was of some help to you.

~Stephen