Question about when you give up your child for adoption?

When you give up your child for adoption. They are obviously not yours anymore. But why do girls say thats still my daughter or my son. As that child grows up there not going to like you anyways right. Seeing that you got pregnant and made the choice to give it up or why do girls say oh my mom made me when it was them that layed down and created a baby there parents cant tell you what you can and cant do with the baby right?

Answer #1

no, your parents dont have ANY say so on either you putting the baby up for adoption or keeping it – though somteimes girls have NO CHOICE because they have no place to live b/c their parents don’t want another child in the house or they just believe that the child is better off being with another family !

Answer #2

dillonsmommy1023 is right they dont have any say on what you where going to do with your baby, I think if they did I wouldnt of been aloud to keep my first son

Answer #3

I’m adopted as well. My parents died so I really had no choice. Technically it still is YOUR child, its your flesh and blood. Just someone else is taking care of it. If you are considering adoption, there is always OPEN adoption where you can see your child sometimes and write to him and explain to him when he gets older why you gave him up. No matter what age you are, that child is yours. Just b/c your under 18, doesn’t give your parents the right to make choices for you! It is totally your choice what you want to do with YOUR child!

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Answer #4

I am adopted, but I got to see my mom a few times. I really don’t think that your parents have any authority over whether their child gives up the baby or not. I don’t know how it all works…but technically the baby is still your child, you conceived it. But it’s someone elses daughter/son. YOu may have conceived the baby but you’re not the one raising it.

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