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Why does he act like he doesn't care in front of friends?

o guys who answered my questionn “does he love me as much as he says he does.” well he has an older brother sam hes 17. o ya abe fingered me and I gave him a hand job. so when hes wit his brother or friends tlkin to me he acts like he dosent care. but we n were tlkin alone he like adores me. do u think he does this to impress sam?? and can someone teach me how to give an amazing hand job thx

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Answer #1

Yeah, sounds like Abe’s being not the best boyfriend to you at the moment. I can’t imagine a good reason why Abe would act like he doesn’t care around Sam, but can think of plenty of bad ones. If Abe wanted to impress Sam, I think he’d be trying to show you off in front of him. It almost seems as if Abe might be a bit embarrased by you - certainly if he really cared about you he wouldn’t treat you this way. It might well be that Abe only wants one thing from you, so just be careful - don’t do anything you’re even a tiny bit unsure about. Fingering and handjob’s two weeks into a relationship is rather fast if you ask me - was it his idea or yours? I’m thinking it might have been his…

Just be careful, and remember don’t let him make you do anything you don’t feel comfortable with. And if you don’t like how he is treating you or how me makes you feel, then don’t be afraid to break up with him.

Answer #2

Someone who TRULY cares about you, and loves you, will want to include you in EVERY aspect of his life. He would want to show you off around his friends, and family,, not the opposite. This guy only gives you attention when youre alone. It would make me think that he only wants one thing from me if hes only nice when its just the 2 of us. (It usually means he wants something)

Answer #3

children are so irisponserbal - lol x

Answer #4

You’re being used. He’s using you purely for physical pleasure. Dump him. He’s too old for you anyway.and you’re 13? Then you’re way too young to be fingered anyway.

Answer #5

I can believe that you’re thirteen.

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