What will happen when I'm faced with my thieving friend?

Um.. I had a friend sleep over at my house a week ago and she has a bit of a reputation for stealing peoples stuff.. I never really believed it because I thought we were pretty close.. then I went in the shower.. and when I came out she asked me if she could borrow some earrings.. so I let her.. even though I needed them for my cousins wedding.. but the wedding was in 2 weeks so I figured id get them back in time. People say she askes to borrow stuff then never gives them back.. I knew this was true but shes borrowed my stuff before but I make it a habit to get them back by saying “ I really need my stuff make sure to bring it to school tomorrow and if oyu forget ill drop by your house after school to pick it up” it works.. so I also had a necklace(it was so pretty too) and I had just bought it for the wedding too and after she left I noticed I oculdnt find them ANYWHERE..plus I hadnt even worn it yet!! and it was where all my jewlery is too…and it just dissapeared??? and im also missing another necklace too.. so I asked her if she borrowed my necklace and maybe I forgot about it and she got SOO defensive…she made a huge scene “WOOWWW I tohught you were my friend!!! why would you accuse me!!! OMG!!!” so I let it go… and since I THOUGHT we were close.. we told eachother a lot of secrets (and shes also been known to backstab) and if I got in her face about taking stuff she would tell peolpe my secrets… im reallyscared of what will happen when school starts!!! HELP

Answer #1

oviously shes not a true friend if she is being that mean to you. ignore her and dont let her no you care, be the bigger person and walk away…this is stressing you out way to much and believe me by letting her go you’ll feel so much better

Answer #2

agreed, she’s definately not a true friend if she’s doing that to you. just walk away from it, and ignore it all. if she does happen to tell your secrets, don’t tell any of hers, because then it will turn into an all our war. just ignore it, and it will pass. as for your belongings, i really don’t know what to say about them. you could go over to her house and see if it’s there, but if she made that big of a deal about it then i really don’t know what to tell you. hopefully it’ll all pass. anyway, sorry i couldn’t be more of a help! good luck with it all.

Answer #3

I have had “so called friend” before too. She stole by earings, lip gloss and something else that I can’t remember. But she is not a true friend, and she is probably just trying to steal your stuff so she can keep it. My friend spent the night over at my house on a school night and the next morning we are getting ready and putting on makeup ect. and all of a sudden I couldn’t find my favorite lipgloss. Then I saw a outline in her hoodie pocket. I reached in without asking and ding ding ding! I pulled out my lipgloss. She got so red and was like: “Um… I was going to give it back to you after school…” Yeah right! And after she got her nose peirced she was at my house and I was missing a earing. It was a silver star with a pink stone in the middle. Well the next day it was in her nose! She was using it as a nose ring! Omg, what a moronic backstabber! Good luck with your “backstabber” Lol. I hope you can get rid of her and make better friends that you deserve. Good Luck!

Answer #4

Yup,she aint a good friend!.. just like if you see her wearing your stuff or watever..then take it back and even if she gets mad… I hate it when people are like that.. haha yeah you should get rid of her!!

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