What's a good gift to give in this case?

What is a good gift to give a girl when -

you don’t really know her very well
you don’t want to come off as being too forward

I am interested in her, but I really don’t know her feelings. She seems to like me when I see her. I would like to have something more than just words asking her out.

She has a boyfriend. I have a girlfriend. We have a definite connection. I only know where she works.. a restaurant. I don’t want to walk in with a bunch of flowers. I’m thinking of only asking for an email address… not even her #. What do you think ?

Become an Expert →

Answer #1

If you are having feelings for another person, then why are you in a relationship with someone else? If a guy bought your gf a gift, what would your reaction be?

Answer #2

Well i think I understand where you’re coming from…but if you have a girlfriend (?) I’m not too sure if she would appreciate you giving her or any other non-family girl member a gift…especially if its done behind her back…if you do, it could easily remove the trust you have with your current girlfriend….if you are planning to break up with your current girlfriend then its best you do that before you give any girl a gift…. But if you honestly want to keep your gf don’t be giving this girl a gift…… a nice compliment will do just fine and if she has the same connections it will be enough ….trust me!

Answer #3

Great question BowHunter. If you give someone a gift it may make them feel inbebted to you. I don’t think that is what you want. She would be more impressed with a kind and sincere word. A smile and listening to her. Show her you care by being a friend. Spend your energy and attention and save your money. I welcome any gal to respond to your question as well as my answer. good luck Gino

Answer #4

A gift would be flowers, this is a nice and not expensive gift, lol… isn’t it Gino?

More Like This

What would be a good gift to give out to everyone at prom? - 5 Answers
What would be great gifts to give out to everyone at a prom? Something that they will always remember, but something that is...
What is a good gift to give a 14 year old boy... - 3 Answers
for his Spiritual birthday? My son's 5 yr spiritual birthday is coming up Sept 2. I know it seems silly for his Mom to be ask...
What is a good unique christmas gift for a 13 year old girl? - 2 Answers
This christmas I have no idea what to get my friends. I know for a fact I am giving them a homemade movie of our pics. And vi...
What is your favorite gift giving site? - 4 Answers
I love thewifestore.com or even gifts.com
Good gift for my son who is turning 18? - 3 Answers
our first son is turning 18. what would be a good gift to give him that would be memorable?
What's the best gift you can give to yourself? - 1 Answers
what is the best gift you can give to yourself?
what are some good gift ideas for my friend? - 2 Answers
gift ideas for my friend , shes 15 and I dont know what will be a good gift idea, anything realy. preferably under £20. thanks
What is a good gift to give to a girl that isn't my girlfriend? - 4 Answers
I really like this girl that I've been getting to know since school started. We talk all the time and I've actually already u...
good idea to give a personalized scrapbook? - 1 Answers
hey..:) christmas is coming soon...I wanna give my boyfriend a personalized gift like a scrapbook or sumthin like that..he's ...
What's a good Christmas gift for your 15 year old boyfriend? - 4 Answers
So my boyfriend, is obviously 15. he is a pretty chill guy, we have been together almost a year. And I need a good gift to gi...

Ask an advisor one-on-one!

What's a good gift to give in this case?

Florist Give Gift Boutique

The Giving Tree

Corporate Gifts Singapore

Case Shop

Custom Photo Phone Cases