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a girl with a stalker that wont leave and it gets worse HELP!!!

ok, im almost 19 years old and I have a baby she’s almost 1, and ever since I started staying home more, I have been getting these text messages from a number telling me how hot I was and that they wanted to see me naked and that they would come into my house when im sleeping and that they are watching my every move and a lot more disturbing things. I thought it was a joke so I texted back telling them to go F*ck off and shut up, and that they dint know me or what I looked like or anything, well a couple mins past and I got another message telling me everything!. what color shirt I was wearing my lip rings my tattoos my hair style I had that day and most of all what I was doing at that time and what place in my house I was in. I have that protection thing in my house but im still a bit scared I mean I have a child. I kept getting these messages so I changed my number and some how some way I got them messages again. so I called the cops and they traced the phone to a palce a long ways away the last time it was used. im a bit scared and need some help can any give me some advice on what I should do.

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Answer #1

Well most likely you know this guy. I wouldn’t move or anything. If he knows your new number he can follow you to your new location. He is probably an ex or some guy who’s advances you refused. Go over that list. Most likely he lives near you and is spying with a telescope or binoculars. If he has been in your house, he may have planted bugs and a spy cam or two. It’s easier than you think but there are people who can find these also. Also, it is easy to reroute messages so you do not know where they come from. Equip your residence with good bolt locks, an alarm system with portable panic button. I believe all vulnerable people should get a carry permit and pack some heat-just in case. Above all do not panic. He is most likely some little worm who likes to scare girls. Good luck. Joe

Answer #2

wow thats freakin crazy!! well did you think about calling the police? thats prbly a good idea!! or if that doesnt work you should move. this sounds like somthing you here in a scary movie!! but calling the police or movinr is a good idea. for you and your childs sake

Answer #3

I agree w joe you shuld also consider a guard dog, and change your lock& get locks 4ur windows. dont move, chances are he’ll follow u

Answer #4

That is really freaking scary, but I agree with Jessica you should just move!

Answer #5

Joe above is right and I would also get a Doberman Pinscher. he will let you know when someone comes around at night and raise hell. He would also keep a guy from wanting in your place, no need to risk a bite in the behind.

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