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4 Months Pergent

I am 4 Months Pregent. Still not talkin to my baby father. His Mother have been calllin me with some bull shit. See when I first had find out that I was a month I told my mother and I call Her and told her for she call tell her son. She told me that she will talk to him about it. She told me that to come to her house for she can talk to me and together. HE told his mother that he not doin shit for the baby and that I am lieing on him. Now she is callin my mother tellin her that I am Liein on her son. This hurt a lot But I dO need so advice.

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Answer #1

When you are done having your child you should probably run some tests and find out his DNA and his blood type and such. If you call the state for child support theyll most likely help you if your childs dad doesnt wanna be apart of his or your life and help. You can get him to pay for child support for you and your child and if he doesnt have a job then he may have to have his mom do that. Its illegal for him to not pay it. I believe that you can do this with a little help. Having a child is rather expensive specially when they start school Im not a parent but i have good friends who have children and their about 16 and one of them is 14 i also have 5 siblings three sisters 2 are twins and their two years old and i have 2 brothers. I know a lot about child services. And if your planning to keep your child you Need a good ammount of money to pay for her/him. You should probably worry about the child support after you have the baby so that your not too stressed right now enjoy these wonderful moments of being pregnant. Your in for something thats a lot of work but its sooo wonderful to have a child its one of the most precious things ever! Just have fun with it. And remember you can do anything you set you mind too! -bev

Answer #2

That is not the kind of attitude you need! You and your baby deserve better, even if he chooses to ignore the baby, your baby will have you. Many women can raise a child alone, and still have a happy healthy child.

Answer #3

don’t stress yourself out behind him that is not good for you or your baby do what you have to do he will be the one missing out on a wonderful experience

Answer #4

Sounds like his Mother would have given you a fair chance had her son not told her you were lying…Parents tend to believe their own kids. If you are young and have your parents support…then I would not talk to him or his mother….until you can prove that the baby is his, by tests. Until they realize that the baby is his for sure…talking to them will only cause hurtful things being said. That may cause problems later down the road if he has anything to do with you and your family once he knows that the child is his. I would probably write him and his mother a letter and tell them how you feel and that you are going to stop contact with them until you can prove that the baby is his, that way there is not unnecessary fighting. You don’t need that type of stress on you while you are pregnant. Good luck!

Answer #5

Just Think about you and your baby right now. Dont get stress out thinking about him or his mother. Keep your head up Sweetie

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