What if two guys like me but I like someone else?

My friend Kyle wants to be more than friends but I'm not sure if I want to be in a relationship and my friend Aundray wants to go out with me too….but I'm not sure I want to go out with him either. To top that off…..I still have feelings for my first love. I told Kyle that I didnt want to go out with anyone from our school, but I havent told Aundray anything yet. Since my first love Shane and I broke up, he has been on my mind and I cant get him out. I dont know if I should give up on true love or what. All the guys are really cute and really nice, but I dont know who to chose. I'm so worried about making a mistake and choosing the wrong person. Who do I chose?

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Answer #1

It is healthiest to have 'spaces' between relationships. You are still dealing with the break up of your first boyfriend. Give yourself time to do this, whatever amount of time it takes. This is being true to yourself. Then, when you do feel like having another relationship it won't be 'junked up' with feelings that you haven't dealt with.

You've told Kyle you just want to be friends. Now reinforce that. Tell him when he's NOT acting like a friend. And if he continues, then he is caring more about how he feels than how you feel.

Don't give up on true love, but be true to yourself while seeking it. Good luck! Blessings

Answer #2

Well go with the one you like. Why play games?

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