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18 And pregnant. How to tell Parents

I am 18 and I am a Christian. I know we arnt suppose to have sex but I did. And now it resulted in a baby. My boyfriend is totally supportive, which is probably the best thing. His mom get really angry, to the point where she will kick him out of the house. Talk about a Christian huh??!! I am mostly worried about him. I am really close to my mom, and I tell her everything. but I dont know how to tell he this.

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Answer #1

First, I’m sorry that you got in this fix. It’s a tough situation. Go to your Mom first, by yourself. Let her get a bit used to it before you approach your Dad. Once you have their support, then the guy needs to approach which ever of his parents he feels closest to. If he can get the support of an older sibling or adult relative first that would be even better. It’s not your job to tell his parents. It’s his.

Like it or not, the two of you are in an adult situation and now have to grow up real fast. Whether you decide to end the pregnancy, adopt the child out, or raise the child you are now in the world of adult decisions.

Good Luck!!

Answer #2

well… yea obviously if youre christian you wont use contraception but if you are gonna have sex then wouldnt you think of the consequences? like pregnancy before hand?? then you could of told your mom that you were going to… then you would obviously be expecting it? is that not how it works?… you plan stuff?!… anyways just sit down and tell her when she is not busy. Tell her you have something you need to tell her and ask her if she is willing to stand by you through anything… you will find your words somehow… =) x

Answer #3

you need to sit your parents down first. it wouldn’t be right to tell his parents first, to be honest I would tell your parents together then his. I wouldnt do it alone, you have come this far together and the situation you are in now is together. you need to tell your parents soon though because the longer you leave it the worst it will be. be an adult about everything, people will respect you more! good luck!!

Answer #4

I’m a Christian too. but I’m sixteen and pregnant . I don’t know either. I’m sure your parents will respect you forbeing prolife. so take it from there. tell them that you realize you were lead into temptation and consequence arose. do ask god for forgiveness and ask him for all to be well with the pregnancy. and ask god to give you the words. he’ll help

good lck xo

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