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What to do if I'm having a baby with just a friend?

im 18 and i have a child on the way, i just now had to drop out of University of Louisiana at Monroe, but about start back im still not over my last girlfriend, and the girl who is carrying my child is really just my friend, we were both in the same predicament with our ex’s are are just confused right now, advice is very appreciated…

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Answer #1

Dear jmanjeff, Wow…some very bad choices made but I think looking back you can see just how bad your choices are. So this is were you make lemonade out of the lemons…right. Your friend has decided to carry this baby to term and keep it? Have you all talked over the options available to you? If you have and she is keeping this baby then you will have all the responsible as the father. She is your friend and chances are she’ll stay just as a friend and that’s fine as long as the environment is a loving and safe one for the child and you full fill your financial and emotional duty to this child. You should by no means try to make yourself feel more for your friend and pretend to be a couple if you do not feel this way. That would just be wrong. So although you didn’t ask a specific question; I will just say full fill your responsibilities to your child and don’t pretend to have feelings for this girl if you don’t have them. Move on with your life, get good grades, find a partner that loves you and you love and be honest with yourself and others. Sue…good luck

Answer #2

Your past relationships are IRRELEVANT now.

You are (accidentially or intentionally) having a baby with a friend. So, the only relationship you should focus on for now, is the one with your child… and perhaps the mother…

Answer #3

Remain friends, take common care of the baby, and make few other babies, too. Do not deal with each other’s other partners. This is the best way of the life, but people are dumbo to realise this. .

Answer #4

You have a baby with your friend? I’m afraid to ask what you do with your girlfriend.

If your friend decided to keep the baby, you should find a way to support the baby. It’s up to you whether you (and your friend) whether the two of you should stay at the same house. I generally wouldn’t recommend dropping out of school, but you should probably focus on getting a full-time job for now. Only after you get used to your new pace should you attempt finishing college.

If you’re close with your parents, ask them for advice (or help). You should ask your friend’s parents what their expectations are.

As for your ex, forget her. You are supposed to get over your ex anyway, and now you have someone else you need to care about (mainly your baby).

Answer #5

If he had the balls to have sex with u He should have them to take care of the kid too

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