13 year old pregnant

Well I got friend whgo is 13 years old and she is pregnant and she dont’t care she thinks she has it easy but she don’t know that she will struggle in life and her and her baby will fuss cause he gonna want do nothing…somebody help her and me

tell your parents they would find out sooner or later

Oh sweetheart I know your scared to tell your parents,but as a mom of an 11 and 9 yr old girls I would want my girls to come to me and tell me this so I could get them help. Id be hurt at first but what is done is done and you cant go back on your past. Young girls are at high risk for many harsh things in pregnancy,you need to tell your parents right away.You can set them down and say to them mom and dad I want to start off by saying you have taught me well in life and what im about to tell you will hurt you but I ask that we talk it out and get through it together as a family.I wanted to tell you I meesed up big time and had sex but it goes deeper than that because im now pregnant and im scared and feel alone.They will get mad they will get upset but remind them they cant change the past,but only live the present.Good luck sweetheart I wish you the best of luck.

totally ignore revolutioner226 because they are talking crap!!you can’t lose your life conceiving a baby because it has already being conceived!!!every1 in leeds knows I had a baby at 13 and they don’t care because thye know I am happy. I thought about abortion then I thought hang on abortion is actually murder because it may not have no lims or a brain or a heart but it will grow into a baby.I told my mum and dad by sitting them down with the dad. I told her I was pregnant and my intentions!

I just sed mum, dad I am pregnant by kayden and I am keeping it. they just sed these things happen and I aint gonna tell you to not keep it because I want you to make your own mistakes and choices. take the chance you have to have a baby some don’t have the choice. they want a baby and can’t have one!!at least if you don’t want it put the baby up for adoption.

ichibanarky… Have you ever had anyone tell you something that changed your life in a note? It’s not an easy thing to go through. It would break their hearts. Do you have any idea how insensitive that is?! Don’t criticize me for caring about her parents’ feelings.

U should tell them before they find out. Its easier that way

revolutioner

RE-READ the question.

She wasn’t ASKING about abortion she was asking about how to tell her parents.

and I’d say follow ichi’s advice. it doesn’t matter how you tell your parents as long as you tell them.

tell them now before its too late,get both sets of parents together, and break the news gently.you will need them to help you through this.

tell your parents because if you dont and they find out from someone else then it will be ten times worse of course they will be mad and they will be hurt but the best thing to do is tell them but if they say to get rid of it then dont listen because I had an abortion and a few years later I hated myself and I hated my parents for making me have the abortion I was only a year and a half older then you are right now but I p[romise you will get through it please fummail me and tell me how things work out because I feel very worried for you and if you decide not to keep the baby then definatly have it and give it to some one who cant have kids because if you have an abortion you would a murder and it is not right to take the life of some one so litle and helpless this child need your help and I urge you to help it good luck darlin’ ‘Ox

And I don’t recommend keeping the baby. You could even lose your life conceiving it and that would defenitely not help your parents and evryone in the world will know you had a baby at the age of 13! it’s not exactly murder seeing as it’s not even a person yet. No limbs.No heart.No brain. My friend was so relieved though. She was glad she had a second chnace at having a life

Once I thought I was in that position and wondered what I’d do but if your 2 months pregnant it’ll start showing soon and your parents will wonder why you didnt tell them. you must be going through a very difficult time if I went through that at my age id never get over it. you can get an abortion then I think without your parents knowing but if you wanna keep it then I dont know maybe go to the school nurse and talk to her about it. anyway good luck x

Hun you need too tell your parents. no matter what happend then at least you have got some-one to support you while your going through this difficult time. I hope you do the right thing hun before it too late. xxx

Telll them I know you would feel like dyin if that happens but I have been thru a lot and now im shure rather than finding out from someone else its best to let your parents know from u .

If you are afraid to tell them alone get a friend, or the boy whom is the father to come and tell them with you. Do not text or write a note that is the chicken way and it doesn’t give the parents any sense of respect. Your parents could be upset yes, but in the long run they will be able to help you better than yourself.

DON’T TEXT IT TO THEM OR TELL THEM IN A NOTE!! The best thing to do is tell them to their face…doing anything BUT that is really bad advice. Yeah they might be mad, but they love you and will forgive you. Please don’t abort your baby…the best choice would be to put it up for adoption…you’ll only fell horrible if you abort afterward…and if you need any moral support I’m here to funmail…let me know how you’re doing!

Tell your Mother first. Tell her this weekend. Do not delay as some of your options may be lost if you do nothing. You absolutely will need the help and support of your parents to get through this.

Good Luck!!

“DON’T TEXT IT TO THEM OR TELL THEM IN A NOTE!! “

How did you tell your parents when you were a pregnant teen?

And if you didn’t go through it, you can’t talk…I was there, and I know how hard it is…it doesn’t matter how you tell them, just as long as you tell them.

you should really tell your parents, you need support, and your so young, have you told the father of the child? there an option of aborting the child but I would think you have to tell your parents, oh course there will be conseqences to pay for your act, but it the best thing to do. seek advice from a proffesion e.g a doctor.

You can tell your parents.

Regardless of what you decide to do - they have to know.

If you’re afraid of being in the room with them when they find out, write them a note and go to a friend’s house. Make sure they know where you are so they can call you if they want to talk.

dont listen to ballerinax05…the best way is to tell your parents..I think I need help too…how did you figure out you were pregnant without your parents knowing…im 13 years old too and I think im pregnant but I don’t know 4 sure and im so terrified because my dad will be pissed off at me…HELP