Being better than the ex?

You are not your GF’s ex-. You shouldn’t try to be him. Trying to be something you are not is not a good long term solution; it will work in the short term while you are on your “best behavior” but eventually the real you will come out. You must have some qualities that your GF likes. It could be your sense of humor, your respect for her, your integrity, your loyalty, your conscience or whatever. I’m not saying you shouldn’t show affection; you certainly do need to make your GF feel loved, respected, and appreciated but the way you do this should be unique to you. Instead of trying to be a better version of her last BF you should just try to be the best you.

Just be yourself and do the best you can to impress her and be kind to her.

When it all comes down to the nitty gritty, ourselves is who we are gonna be.

Comparing yourself to her ex is just going to cloud your mind and mess things up for ya.

She isn’t with him anymore and likes YOU……………so just be you.

Instead of worrying about weather she likes YOU or not……………focus on weather you like HER or not…….and if the two of you can do this thing…….no matter how hot she is.

It takes two to make it happen…………..everything from communication to everything else.

Remember, there’s a reason he’s the ex and your not.