How do i get over someone?

The best way to get over a man is to get under one ;) lol. jk! Don’t do that.

You’re very smart for not getting together with him! You’re right that if he can do it to her then he can do it to you. Most girls aren’t smart enough like that! Good job :) Getting over someone can sometimes appear to be impossible. It feels really bad when you fall in love with someone you can’t have but It feels even worse when you become sure that this relationship you are in can never work.

Five years ago I was ultimately convinced that breakups are the worst thing that could ever happen to someone. I used to believe that forgetting about someone is one of the hardest things in life, especially if you had the feeling that he/she was the one.

I used to carry all of these beliefs in my mind until that day came where I went deep into the psychology of falling in love and discovered that getting over someone can take less than 2 weeks if the proper instructions were followed!!

Warning: These “Getting over someone” tips will make you numb Getting over someone will be a process that takes weeks if not days.

If you think that pain is an essential part of love or if you think that lovers should suffer then stop reading. However, if you believe that exaggerated attachment is something that can hinder you from living a happy life and if you believe that this pain is unnecessary then keep reading.

I cant say that one answer will do the job and that’s why you need to read all of the answers you get.

How to get over someone, A step by step guide Few concepts you must understand:

“The One” Concept is a myth: One of the main reasons if not the main reason people don’t recover from breakups is that they believe in the one Myth. Your subconscious mind can never heal if it believed that the person who broke up with you was the best person who ever existed. By learning more about the “one” concept and understanding that we all have lots of potential partners out there you will be able to get rid of the pain associated with a breakup. Lots of people can be the One: I have explained before in my answer the psychology of love that we fall in love with those who match some of the criteria we have in our subconscious mind. This means that more than one person can match our criteria!! Moreover you might fall in love with someone who matched 30 out of your forty subconscious criteria while in fact there could be a person out there who matches 35 of them!!

Everything reminds me of him!: When two events become associated with each other in the mind so that the occurrence of one of them reminds you of the other then this is called an anchor(for example listening to a song that reminds you of a certain situation that happened before). When you try to get over someone you will usually face lots of anchors that will remind you of that person and that’s why you should learn how to break these anchors.

Acceptance leads to recovery: Contrary to common beliefs, if you knew for sure that the relationship won’t work you will start to recover. A person can only get over someone when he accepts the fact that he can’t get him back else he will live on the remaining hope and suffer. If you can find a way to reassure yourself that the relationship is over you will easily be able to get over that person.