What should I do?

My mom does not like my friend (who is actually my boyfriend but I don’t think she knows that). She met him and was asking a bunch of questions about him. She was okay with him until she found out he is 25. I told him not to say anything but he wants to be honest with her. I appreciate his honesty but my mom is against older guys because of my past relationship. A lot of bad things happened in my last relationship but I feel that age has nothing to do with the way he behaved. For example, if a person is manipulative then they are going to be that way no matter how old they are. I’m 18 and I have always had an interest in guys that were older. I may not be the most mature person on this planet but I have no interest in guys my age. My mom’s argument is that I have nothing in common with a guy in his mind twenties but I feel like its not right to judge every guy based on one guy’s mistake. By the way, my mother is the type of parent does not let me go out :/ so that alone makes it harder to talk or be with anybody. What do you guys think? I want to be with him but I don’t think it is fair that he has to go through what I go through (not being able to see each other).

Answer #1

Well you are 18 so it really doesn’t matter what her opinion is or what she makes you do. It’s up to you, if you want her to know about his age then let her know, but also let her know that you are legally an adult and she cannot control who you’re in a relationship/friends with.

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