How should I do it?

Ok so, me and my boyfriend Arron having been going out since the 24th November (2012 my longest relationship) but the thing is he is quite shy and I’m relationship shy so we don’t DO anything. We gave eachother x mas gifts and I gave him a birthday gift but we rarely talk and the only alone time we get is when we’re walking back from homework club and that’s still like only 5-10mins. So what I was thinking is the next time we’re walking back from homework club as we’re leaving the building I’ll walk quite close to him and as soon as we’re outside I’ll hold onto his hand and maybe if I can work up the courage maybe hug him when we take our different paths. What do you think?

Answer #1

Sounds like a good idea, say you have a surprise for him as soon as you see him that day and when the time comes just hug him, im sure you will do just fine :-)

Answer #2

I agree with tammy. Its an absolutely great idea and it’ll be a nice thing for both of you. Remember one thing though, dont feel shy and decide to do it later. Once you work up the courage, just do it. You’ll regret it if you dont..

Answer #3

Sounds like he shy about showing affection. You have to open up to him. Make him comfortable. Let him know its OK for him to talk to you, touch u. He probably needs more time. Gradually he will feel more comfortable, come out of his shell.

Answer #4

Awh that’s cute. Sounds like a great idea. :)

Answer #5

That’s so cute, and that sounds like a really good idea. The two of you sound like you like each other very much, but are just too shy. I’m sure he will love it if you held his hand and hugged him. Don’t let his shyness discourage you, he is probably thinking the same exact thing but just isn’t brave enough to do it. Go for it! Nothing wrong with making the first move :)

Answer #6

Worth a try to see if he responds further with actions or emotion! Good luck!

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