Is this girl lying about being pregnant?

There’ this girl i met , she was very pretty and nice. We got along pretty well and became good friends but she would continously bring up how she missed her ex. She would text me about it and put multiple sad quotes on her facebook. Though she no longer dated him, she said they still had sex often. After talking for a few months she invited me over. (Not a good move i know). But trying to be the extra protective type i peed at home hoping to rid myself of any sperm possibly in my precum. Eventually i showed up at her house and we had sex. I used a condom and even pulled out before i ejaculated. After that i drove home and everything was great, but as time passed we slowly stopped talking. After about 2 weeks she texts me asking why we no longer talk, i felt bad and we had a small conversation. But the next day she texts me saying she’s a week late. I continued to tell her that theres no way since no sperm touched her, but she would continously say that she thinks she is anyways. Well eventually she took a test and sent me a picture, it was 1 line with another shadowy grey line. She claimed it probably meant positive but after doing research i feel theres a high chance its an evaporation line. Well we talked and she says she will care for the baby but she keeps bringing it up that she will take care of it like she wants credit. Well soon after she texts me asking me to come over to her house again, but i refuse because of the situation and how stressful it is. She keeps saying it shouldnt matter but it does matter atleast for me. Soon she begins to argue with me and because I decide not to come. Please tell me your thoughts and if you think she may be tricking me for attention?

Answer #1

I think she is lying, but if and we she does have the baby get a paternity test

Answer #2

go buy a pregnancy test, and have her take it IN FRONT of you. Go to doctor’s appointments… do I personally think she’s lying? yup

Answer #3

I think she is. like really it sounds like it.

Answer #4

Sounds super sketchy, but there’s no way any of us can say for sure. I agree with Bellsie – you should ask her to take a test in front of you. The truth will come out eventually, don’t worry. (Also, if she actually happened to be pregnant, are you sure the baby would be yours? I mean, that’s another thing to think about).

Answer #5

as much as it sounds like she is going through mood swings it sounds a bit diffcult to be pregnant with your baby take another test with her and both look at the same time

Answer #6

Sadly, you will need to get proof. I recommend that you book a doctors appointment and have your GP test her. This strategy has the least amount of drama to it - good luck!

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