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How can I get my best friend and boyfriend to like each other?

my best friend is stubborn, and doesn’t like my boyfriend, but won’t admit it. She acts like it, she’s a brat when she talks to him, everything… so he acts like he doesn’t like her back, because he doesn’t know what else to do. I think he actually doesn’t like her, because he doesn’t like the way she treats me. But it’s starting to get really hard to deal with, its causing fights between me and her, and me and him.

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Answer #1

You can’t force two people to like each other, the harder you try the harder it will get. It was the same exact way for me, when I would tell them to stop, each would get mad at me because I should be on both of their sides. So, now when they argue I step back and just watch them fight. They get over it themselves and learn to shut up eventually, without me getting involved then we all just carry on. That’s all you really can do, trust me, I’ve bee trying for years lol.

Answer #2

I agree with kayla, they should get over it and let you be happy? I’ve been in your shoes before and i know it isnt nice at all but if she really was your best friend she’d let you be happy with your boyfriend surely, no matter what. For future advice.. try and avoid situations where they’d be together.. good luck!

Answer #3

I had a friend exactly like that, she took an instant dislike to my partner straight from the start for no reason. Never even tried to talk to him. I think she might have felt he took me away from her but that so far from the truth. So you can’t make her like him, as long as you are happy then that’s all that matters. You can’t please everyone no matter how much you want too.

Answer #4

The only solution to that is time.

Answer #5

i tried this, didn’t work, now i don’t have the same bestfriend and i don’t have the same boyfriend.. if their not willing to see eye to eye to make you happy then their probably not worth it, because they don’t realise its you that gets stressed about it and it feels awkward. Sit them down individually and tell them its stressing you out and that you need them to be civil. If they turn this down then they defiantly don’t care about your happiness

Answer #6

U should not force them but put them in a room together

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