What would you do in this situation?

Hypothetical question, let’s say you’re dating someone and they suddenly start becoming more busy and they lack the time to talk to you, but they don’t tell you why and they seemingly just get up and go right in the middle of your talks, how would you feel about this, does this give you a right to be suspicious or not? Also, when you decide to ask questions about it, they get defensive and try to avoid the questions? Any and all answers are appreciated :)

Answer #1

Yes, it does give you the right to be suspicious. They should be honest about what they are doing or not be in a relationship if they are to busy.

Answer #2

If I were in this situation I would feel really unwanted and neglected. Being the noisy person I am today, I would have asked right away and if they avoided the questions and got defensive I would break up with them. A relationship is supposed to be full of fun and they’re supposed to make you feel good and this hypothetical situation doesn’t sound like either of those.

-Miranda Caitlyn

Answer #3

Thanks for the input :)

Answer #4

thank you :)

Answer #5

I think I’d start to feel really hurt. To me, having that closeness with a partner is extremely important. Conversations are important, too. They are what connect me to my partner, after all.

If they left in the middle of our talks, I’d feel like I wasn’t important to them. If I brought it up and they just avoided it, I’d be even more upset. If we can’t be open with each other, how will it even last? (Perhaps I have an odd thought process, but I often think about futures in cases as such.)

I personally feel like you have every right to feel suspicious. I do think, however, that you should talk about it before you come to any conclusions. Though difficult, she will need to speak to you about what it is that’s keeping her busy. You deserve the truth.

Answer #6

Thanks Simply :)

Answer #7

i would be suspicious if it was my partner. if someone your in a relationship suddenly starts acting differently and spending less time with you, they should be honest with you and tell you why there doing that. if there avoiding answering your questions i would feel very upset, confused, annoyed, ect and be even more suspicious. not answering your questions or leaving when your trying to talk to them obviously means there trying to avoid telling you soemthing or avoid you finding something out.

Answer #8

Thanks Jaz :3

Answer #9

id tell them i didnt have time for them and dump them.

Answer #10

well honestly .. i’d be very hurt but i’d never confront them about it. i’m the type of person that is a people pleaser and i’d be scared of his answer. i’d basically keep all my worries unside of me until the worst happened, which would be us breaking up and then i’d feel like crap. i’ve pretty much been in this situation before, many times. and i’s never fun ,.

Answer #11

The person I am would be very suspicious. I have been hurt by very similar situations. even if there is no one else, you wonder why they dont want to spend the time, and make you feel like the only one

Answer #12

I would feel neglected and want to know why I wasn’t getting to talk to them as much as I used to. If they tried to avoid the questions, I would continue to ask them the questions. But if they wouldn’t give me an answer i’d probably eventually cut it off; end things. Why stay with someone who doesn’t have time to talk to you, but heas time to do other things and ignore you?

Answer #13

Shank the bitch.

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